In keeping with last week’s Fabric Friday, I thought I would keep going with the lace family. When you start delving into lace, it becomes more mysterious and fascinating all at the same time – or at least I think so. I find it amazing that what looks like such a delicate fabric can really be so strong. Really cool.

Today I thought I would focus on Chantilly Lace. Did you know that in french, the word Chantilly means something along the lines of whipped cream? It’s also the name of a city in France where Chantilly Lace originated from (hence the name for Chantilly Lace, even though knowing about the whipped cream part is pretty fun too). A fine chantilly lace is truly lovely. Personally, I rarely see one that has a design that I truly love, so when I do, I snatch it up!


Chantilly lace is different from re-embroidered lace in a few key ways. Instead of the motifs being embroidered onto English Net and then possibly beaded, Chantilly has the motif woven into the lace itself. Re-embroidered lace has a surface design that is applied after and the Chantilly has more of a flat, less textural design that is woven directly into the lace as it’s being made.


Chantilly started out as a bobbin lace. What’s bobbin lace? It’s also known as pillow lace because it was worked by hand on a pillow. Individual strands/fibers were designed (braided and twisted) around a set of pins that were placed in the pillow at various intervals. From there the individual strands were worked into a lace and while they were worked they were wound around various bobbins to keep them separate.



Fine Chantilly has a picot edge – or eyelash edge as I’ve heard it called too. These looped edges run along the scallops which would be considered the selvedge on regular fabrics. Again, as I stated last week, lace doesn’t have a grainline, so you can utilize the scallops to your advantage. Along a pretty neckline or at the edge of a sleeve or hemline of a skirt or dress.

Have you ever used Chantilly? Have one in your stash? Do tell!

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  • Natalie - Hi Sunni, I just wanted to say how much I enjoy these fabric Friday posts. I’ve learned so much! This lace is gorgeous. I hope you do a silk series at some point! Thank you for sharing your knowledge!ReplyCancel

  • visitor - “Did you know that in french, the word Chantilly means cream?”

    Chantilly doesn’t mean cream in French. It’s a type of sweetened whipped cream used in desserts: crème chantilly. As far as I know, the name of the lace comes from the town where it originally was produced.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Oh thank you! I actually have a french friend who told me it meant cream or whipped cream, I couldn’t quite remember. Updated now!ReplyCancel

  • Maddie - Just like last week’s post on re-embroidered lace, I love this one! I didn’t know Chantilly lace started as bobbin lace. When I first red about it, it was hard to imagine what it was, and I found the below YouTube video that gives a great visual. Thought I’d share!


  • Yvonne - Add me to the list who LOVES these Friday fabric postings. Thanks for taking the time to do them. I appreciate it.ReplyCancel

  • eimear - as with the other comments above, i really appreciate your fabric postings. i am also hoping some one posts a lace make, as i was given some leftover lace from a friends wedding dress years ago and would like to make something but am drawing a blank!!! and your posts on lace are definitely inspiring me to think a bit harder.ReplyCancel

  • Diane - Love Love your Chantilly Lace…glad you finally found yours. I’m still on the search, because like you haven’t seen one I can
    live without.ReplyCancel

  • Linda Galnte - I’m surprised to say that I do have a piece of fine Chantilly lace in my stash with an eyelash edge! Who knew! Now I do, because you educated me. Thanks for deepening my appreciation of a gorgeous piece.ReplyCancel

  • Fabric Friday: Alençon Lace | A Fashionable Stitch - […] like cheating really to be talking about Alençon Lace today. Why? Because it’s basically Chantilly Lace that is corded (and we talked about Chantilly last week, in case you missed). How do you pronounce […]ReplyCancel

  • Abigail - Very useful, thanks for the post!ReplyCancel


For today’s Fabric Friday, I thought I would delve into the world of lace. Since finishing up my besotted blouse last week, I thought it would be great to highlight laces. Today’s lace: Re-embroidered lace! I thought I would do this one first as it’s the same type that I used in my besotted blouse.

Lace get’s a pretty bad rap, I think, as being hard to work with. It’s really not. Like really, really. I daresay that lace is fairly easy to work with. It just requires a special skill set – not unlike how you have special skills/techniques for knits. Laces are like that. You need to pick sewing patterns that cater to the lace. Case in point: my besotted lace and silk blouse. I created the pattern especially for the lace I was using. The lace is beaded and as I was looking at the lace, I realized that I didn’t want to mess with a dart anywhere in the front of the bodice. Additionally, I didn’t want to mess with a curved hem in the front either. So those two things got tossed in favor of something simpler to sew with this fabric.


To begin, we need to know what netting is and how it’s utilized in these laces. The netting I’m showing you is English Net. The kind I carry in my shop is the flowy and soft kind – not the stiff kind. The soft and flowy kind is the kind that is quite a bit harder to get your hands on, or so I have found. English Net is really, just a simple netting that is usually made from silk – but the silk version is outrageously expensive (like $150 per yard). The version I sell is a rayon/nylon blend. The rayon gives it some nice drape and the nylon gives it softness.



With re-embroidered lace, you have English Net that has been embroidered with motif – usually florals. The embroidery is then corded.


Re-embroidered laces can also be beaded. These can be quite lux with glass beads, sequins and rhinestones.


Fine laces – or at least the ones I normally see and purchase for my shop – have a finished scallop running along both selvedge edges. Sometimes the scallop is not the same on both sides, like in the case of a border motif style lace. When you’re working with lace, the cross grain usually becomes the new straight of grain so that you can better utilize these scallop edges – but don’t let that fool you. Lace doesn’t have a grain, so you could do some wild things with it if you wanted. That said, there is usually more give in the cross grain than in the straight of grain. Additionally, lace doesn’t fray or unravel so you can cut the motifs in the lace apart and slap those on different garments in different places if you wanted. Use all that to your advantage.

Have you worked with lace before? What gives you pause when it comes to lace fabric?

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  • Robyn - I just purchased some lace from your shop that I plan to make into an infinity veil scarf for my daughter to wear to church for Easter. She found the idea online some where and I can’t turn down a challenge. At any rate I think I know how I will make this but, will it need to be hemmed? You say that lace does not unravel. So, do I need to finish seams or hem it? Just curious…

    I love the purchased that I got from you. It’s beautiful and I am wanting more.ReplyCancel

  • Cynthia - I love lace but worry that it looks too bridal. Any suggestions for how to use it in a more contemporary fashion?ReplyCancel

    • Lady ID - I’m not Sunni but I would say it depends on the type of lace. You could try a skirt or dress using guipure. Or play with different colours. I use to be anti-lace because it’s so popular at home but now I love it. There are so many colours available so I tend to stay away from whites/ivories because they look bridal. BUT I would totally make a short dress out of sequined ivory lace – the shorter length makes it less bridal IMOReplyCancel

      • Cynthia - Thanks Lady ID. Love the idea of a short dress out of sequined lace. Maybe an art deco style of lace if I can find it.ReplyCancel

  • maddie - Since I sew mostly lingerie nowadays, I’ve become comfortable with sewing lace. I wouldn’t use English lace for any of my bras or undies, but it was interested learning about it. Thanks Sunni!ReplyCancel

  • Dalia - I had a wedding-gown that was all embroidered lace, with a long train and scalloped edges. I fell in love with it and bought it second hand. I knew I would have to shorten it, but I I thought the lace was woven this way. Oh, the naïveté. When I looked closer, I had at least sixty seperate pieces of lace and countless beads, pearls and sequins on my hand. Something to sew back on in the evenings by hand. Almost 7 months later I still find sequins in the corners.
    But it has given me appreciation for this fabric and why it is so expensive.ReplyCancel

  • Lucy - The scary part of working with expensive lace is the cutting. I made my daughter’s wedding dress 3 years ago. A lot of planning went into the design. Cutting seemed like the point of no return. Any mistakes would be irrevocable. Luckily, it all turned out well in the end. Her dress had princess lines. The fabric had a wide border. It took a lot of planning and a bit of hand stitching to curve the lower edge of the lace, but it worked out well. I wrote about that process here: https://playfulstitching.wordpress.com/2012/02/01/wedding-dress-part-ii/
    I have four separate posts about the dress. This one is the second in the series. I hope they are helpful to anyone sewing with lace.ReplyCancel

  • Fabric Friday: Chantilly Lace | A Fashionable Stitch - […] keeping with last week’s Fabric Friday, I thought I would keep going with the lace family. When you start delving into lace, it becomes […]ReplyCancel


Since I got you all excited about creating your own patterns – from a pattern that already fits you – in my last post, I thought I would give you some fitting thoughts of what I went through with my versions of McCall’s 6649. I posted an update about the Craftsy class with Sarah Holden in my last post, but I thought I would state it again. This particular class does not offer any help whatsoever for fitting. It focuses on pattern drafting from a pattern that fits you. The fitting process is a whole class unto itself, so that was not covered in a class like this (but see below for more info on my fitting references). Often times fitting, for me, is a really rotten and time consuming process (isn’t it for everyone?). One thing I really really don’t enjoy is that I tend to start second guessing myself at the end of it all. Do I really like the fit of this? Maybe I should make a few more tweaks? Shouldn’t it be more fitted? Hmmm, the sleeve might be an 1/8″ too long? An 1/8″? Isn’t that a little nuts? Are we actually trying to split hairs here? AHHHHH! This process is called overfitting and it happens, I think, to all of us (well I hope it does or I am a bona fide nut job). I usually have to step back from something like this and then come back to it a few days or weeks later.


With McCall’s 6649, I made an initial muslin. From there I created this flannel shirt that I blogged back in August of last year. That was my first rendition. The sleeves were too short, the collar was too tall and flopped about too much (for my taste). The shoulders needed a forward shoulder adjustment, the sleeve cuff was too big. I also like to sew the button placket in a different way (this is just too lumpy for my taste). These were things that needed fixing even after I had done a muslin and made extensive fitting adjustments before I made up this version! In case you were worried, I didn’t pick this pattern back up and finish the fitting process until December 2014. It did not take me since last August to fit this pattern! Ha ha! Now that would be bad!


My second round proved better. I measured a sleeve and cuff from a button-up shirt I had and liked the fit of and then adjusted my pattern accordingly. Also compared the collars and made more adjustments to my pattern. The sleeve cuff on this one still ended up being too big for my taste preferences. And yes, I totally added lace to this one! This is a Liberty of London print, just in case you were wondering.


I adjusted the sleeve cuff for this favorite version (read more about this one here)! The cuff is a  little more fitted and that’s exactly the way I like them. This shirt, I daresay is perfect. Again on this shirt, I opted not to sew in the vertical darts on the front bodice, just to mix it up a little. I like things boxy sometimes and I was curious to see if it still “fit” if I didn’t sew in the darts. It fits just fine, it’s just a different sort of fit which is good because then the wheels start turning and I start seeing possibilities for future hacks!


And then just to be safe, I made one more version in a most beloved Liberty of London that I had been stashing for some time for just this very purpose. I decided to go whole hog and do all of the things, including front vertical darts and pockets with flaps.

I decided to show you all of these because I feel that sometimes people might think that fitting can be solved after one muslin iteration. While a lot of it can and the garment you make next is usually just fine or at least wearable, you’ll end up wanting to tweak things for an even better fit in the next go around. Why? Because you CAN! Hello fitting ninja! The kinks come out of it pretty well when you’re into your third make from the same pattern – at least this has been my experience. Granted, there are a lot of patterns out there that I don’t make multiples of. Sometimes those patterns are just one hit wonders, but base patterns like these I take a good long time with and really get the fit right on par for what I want.


I took this class on Craftsy quite some time ago, which I found to be incredibly useful pre-muslin – Fast Track Fitting with Joi Mahon. Her follow-up class is really good too, Fast Track Fitting, in the Details. She’s also got a great book out – Create the Perfect Fit – and all of these resources stick to the same method that she really tries to drill into your brain – measure your body, measure and adjust the pattern. I like her method a lot because you use measurements from your body and then you adjust the pattern before you do your initial muslin. It clears up a lot of the big problems. After the muslin phase, I tweak the fit utilizing the first edition of Fitting & Pattern Alteration. Really, really awesome fitting book.

OK, well I think that’s enough about fitting for one day. Hopefully there’s some good information here for those of you who might be stuck or thinking about overfitting every sewing pattern you’ve ever made! Do you make multiples of patterns to get the fit just right? Do you over fit? I know, it’s totally a thing, right?

  • Crimson Needle - Overfitting… well now I know what to call it.ReplyCancel

  • Marina - Fabulous job! I’ve always stayed away from shirts but this gives me hope.ReplyCancel

  • Nancy N - Ain’t fitting fun?? I do a regular costuming job where there are one or two repeat performers each year. One has a great figure, but owing to having 2 kids in the past 4 years, her measurements have altered pretty dramatically from season to season! So the muslin that was a dead fit while nursing is too baggy now, etc… I find the best bet is just to cut with very generous seam allowances, and then do a good shaping on the toile before I try to cut out the final fabric. Owing to NO TIME, one toile is all I can allot myself! For personal clothes, yes, I hacked a pair of Ann Taylor wide legged pants and have made 5 different pairs, trying to refine the fit each times. It’s fun, and a challenge, as each fabric behaves slightly differently. But I wear them all, because I HATE to toss out anything I have worked that hard on!
    Thanks for these posts and suggestions. A very valuable resource!
    Nancy NReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Great points! Sometimes there are certain patterns that I only want to make once. I don’t need to make it multiple times so, one muslin is going to have to be enough. In that case, I find that some of the fitting problems will just have to stay, but at least it’s mostly wearable and I will wear it. DIfferent fabrics do bring up different fitting problems, couldn’t agree more! So in addition to the pattern, now we have to worry about fabric! Ugh. Never ending!ReplyCancel

  • K-Line - It’s so true about the iterative process of fitting. Pretty well every first wearable garment version (generally a 2nd or 3rd muslin, for me) ends up being revised and tweaked when I make it again and again. We change, our preferences change, our bodies change. A pattern is a moment in time. I do try to get most of the way there before I wear it out of the house though :-)ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I love this thought about our preferences changing. So true. There have been times in my life that I’ve preferred an really close fit and other times when I’ve wanted a slouchier fit on a similar silhouette. Great thoughts!ReplyCancel

  • Emma - Thank you for talking about this scary topic! I’m new to sewing and I made my first dress (out of the envelope) last summer. Alas, it didn’t fit and, traumatised, I gave up sewing for several months. I am now getting back into it again and learning a lot about muslin-making and fitting on the way. I now understand that I need to put in a lot more work to get a garment to fit me, and will make up a pattern several times, altering my pattern and tweaking as I go. I’ve watched both of Joi’s classes on Craftsy, as well as Lynda Maynard’s fitting class, which is EXCELLENT. I love your shirts and am excited to start making them once I get my basic cotton tee pattern down!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I tell this to all of my students. Fitting is the #1 reason people don’t sew their own clothes anymore. It’s the #1 reason we give it up and never want to do it again. On the flip side though, when you’ve gotten a better hang of the fitting game, it’s the #1 reason you will sew because you’ll find that once things start fitting, you’ll love it! Hang in there. This is what most everyone goes through.ReplyCancel

  • McCallPatternCompany - Really good points here! And love your renditions of this pattern.ReplyCancel

  • Leah - Thank you so much, fitting does take time and I don’t spend enough time doing it, but I love seeing your progression through the garments. Since this is a classic, I’m sure there will be many more. Need to remember this for some of my wardrobe staplesReplyCancel

  • Katherine - I am doing Suzy Furrer’s class on drafting a bodice sloper to fit. I am up to my 12th fitting alteration and am so over it, but want the final result to be bulletproof. I think I could have got there much quicker and with heaps less muslins if I had someone to help me with my measurements. I would also recommend getting an expert to help with the fitting, if you have access to one, which I don’t. I just want to get onto the fun pattern alterations bit.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Wow. Yes, you would definitely want the fitting to be bulletproof. Again, I’m always amazed that there is really no “easy” path to fitting. You just have to go through it and do it and keep doing it.ReplyCancel

  • Stillsewing - Well done on your alterations! I would never have the patience to “tweak” a pattern to the extent that you do. In fact if I had to do that much alterations I’d never start on any sewing project!

    I prefer to make patterns like “Very Easy Vogue” that have simple lines, are easy to sew so that you can get perfect results. They are elegant and easy to wear. Because they do not have too many pattern pieces are easy to adjust. Patterns like these encourage home sewers whose time for sewing is limited as it competes with so many other demands in their lives. Sewing is a hobby for most people and buying and using a pattern should be a help and not a chore.

    Personally I sew so that I can have my own style which to me means lots of different garments. If I cannot buy a pattern and use it without a muslin first, then I will stop sewing or go back to makng my own patterns which I consider to be a waste of time when there are many good pattern makers out there.

    I enjoy your blogs and have followed them over the years. I wonder how you find the time to do all the sewing that you do and fit in all the other aspects of your life. Even thinking of all the time you spend on recording your work alone! I’m retired, and do a bit of voluntary work, but that aside, managing a house and garden doesn’t leave as much time for sewing as I would like.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I think you have to approach sewing from what you want out of it and it sounds like you do. I want more from sewing each time I sew – I want to make easy things and hard thing. Things that are really complex and others that aren’t. I do have a household to manage and I do work a job right now, but I find that I prioritize sewing to be at the top of my list of things to do when I’m idle. I just really crave it and love it.
      With fitting, I will say that after fitting many different shapes and sizes of women, it would be hard for some to even get many of the sewing patterns with simple lines and shapes to fit well enough to wear or even try on. While this works for you (which is great!) I wouldn’t recommend it for everyone because the results vary so much and because then people become extremely unhappy with sewing because they can never wear anything they make, which is incredibly frustrating. In my opinion, fitting is just one of those things that you have to do if you make your own clothes.ReplyCancel

  • Tanya - I really appreciate you sharing your process. I have been inspired to make and fit a button up shirt. I got the McCall’s pattern, sign up crafty class by Pam Howard and on my way many fantastic shirts that fit me. My journey there will take effort and time with fit but that’s what it takes.ReplyCancel

  • Sophie-Lee - Oh man, I so hear you on the over fitting issue. I’ve been trying to get my shirt pattern fitting perfectly and I think I’m there (on my fifth version) but my brain keeps going “look at those drag lines. Is this bit too tight? This bit too loose? Should the cuff be smaller?” etc. If I do anything else I probably won’t be able to move! (http://www.tworandomwordsblog.com/2015/03/granville-version-2-now-with-new-and-improved-fit/ is the latest one)

    It’s also really good to be reminded that you’ll need to continue making changes, even after a muslin – you may only realise something needs to change after wearing something for 5+ hours, or once you’ve got it in a fashion fabric rather than stiffer muslin.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Again, a great point. The wearing of something for a day really tells you if it’s going to work for you. Sometimes it really doesn’t. I just made a pair of jeans and the waistband is digging into my tummy – won’t wear them! So out they go and here I go making another pair with a waistband adjustment.ReplyCancel

  • Kate - Thanks for sharing your fitting process, I made a muslin for a few shirt patterns last week and you’ve just convinced me to sign up for that craftsy class.ReplyCancel

    • Lesley - Kate, don’t forget you can ask Craftsy for a refund if the class is not your cup of tea, I think you have 30 days. I bought Joi Mahon’s classes and just don’t feel any closer to a good fit. Her teaching style is not my thing and there have been other Craftsy classes I preferred for fitting like Kathleen Cheatham’s.ReplyCancel

      • Sunni

        Sunni - Oh, I’ll have to check out Kathleen’s class! Thanks for the tip!ReplyCancel

  • Glynis - Please can you share with us how you get the collar to stand up like it does. I’ve got a shirt pattern I’m really happy with except for the collar – it opens out and lies flat and I don’t want that.ReplyCancel

  • Donna Stevens - What an awesome post! I love what you’ve done with this pattern and am inspired to try myself. Thanks for that! My question to you: I really love sleeves with little turn-up cuffs (maybe)that fall at or just below my elbow – and I’m thinking of trying to do this with this pattern. Do you have any suggestions or advice you could share for doing something like this? Thanks!ReplyCancel

  • EmSewCrazy - Just had to jump in and say I was skeptical of yet another fitting book but entered a giveaway because why not? Joi’s book was a revelation and has tremendously helped my fitting journey!
    Thanks for your honesty in sharing the journey it takes for that “perfect fit”. Love that navy floral shirt too!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I personally really really like Joi’s method. It’s a method I was doing before I had encountered her class on Craftsy, but on a much simpler scale. She has you take a lot more measurements and you make a lot more adjustments and it’s been something of a revelation for me. I still have some issues after the muslin, but they are fairly minimal. I find that the her method works really well on other women as well as I’ve used it for my fitting classes.ReplyCancel

  • BeckyLeeSews - I suffer from being formerly fat. The yo-yo of weight loss and subsequent gain has been a steady pattern in my life for over 30 years with a size 18 at my largest and 10 at my smallest. Fortunately, the 18 was for a very short time in my late teens, but also unfortunately, in the size 10 phase I bought a ton of clothes that no longer fit. So now I’m making my own and have found out that somewhere between a size 12 & 14 is perfect (at a size 10 my face has too many wrinkles!) I’m using RTW dresses that I like as sizing guides to alter commercial patterns – the bodices on some and skirts on others. But even then, something usually goes wonky. Measurements be what they are, I NEVER believe them and so I “add just a 1/2″ here” and I end up with a billowing tent in the end that I have to add a dart to. It’s definitely a journey!
    That last LoL blouse is my favorite. Beautiful!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - This is another great point! I think a lot of women suffer from rapid weight loss and gain and it can be really hard on the fitting front because you have to take your measurements each time you approach something new. I think you’ve got a great system – using RTW can be a revelation to making sewing patterns fit. Great idea!ReplyCancel

Over the course this year so far, you’ve seen my adoration for a certain button up sewing pattern (McCall’s 6649) and then a couple of hacks of things I’ve made from it (here and here). I thought I would take a sec, stop down and say a little more about it. It’s exciting. Well, at least I think so.

Hopefully this post will help clear up some questions I’ve been getting and hopefully it will show you that you can take a pattern and hack it up and not have to re-invent the fitting wheel. This is a skill I’ve cultivated over several years and one that is well worth the time invested and when you get to the pattern drafting part, it’s really quite fun to learn (in like a scrapbooking sort of way!). In my recent hack of my beloved McCall’s 6649, I mentioned a Craftsy class I had taken. One Pattern, Many Looks with Sarah Holden. I enrolled in the class last year sometime and then it sat in my Craftsy cue for many months. One night, I was really tired and decided to watch this Craftsy class as I was sitting in bed. I watched all the episodes right there and then. I was riveted and I was so excited to get up and get started in the morning. Dreamt of pattern hacks all night! Yessssss!


The class takes you through this pretty fascinating process. First you’re supposed to fit the pattern. This process actually took a few weeks (the longest part of this whole business) because I wanted something that truly, was perfect and that usually means, for me, that I work out any and all kinks in a pattern by making it up at least 3 times. Seriously, 3 times is the charm. I have some more thoughts about the fitting process in my next post, but yeah, I made this shirt up a good 3 times (and then one more time, making that 4 times!!) before I moved on to the rest of the content of the class. Update: Just so you are aware, this Craftsy class does not cover anything about fitting! It’s only about pattern drafting and manipulation.

After a perfect fit, then it was time to reverse engineer the pattern back to sloper form. What is a sloper? In the most basic terms, a sloper is a base pattern, without seam allowances, from which other patterns can be created or hacked from. You can have different types of slopers. For example, you can have bodice, sleeve, dress, pants, etc. From there you can even have varying types of those basic patterns like a button-up shirt sloper or a raglan sleeve sloper. The idea is that you’ll start forming an entire collection of base patterns that are closer in idea to what you want an end pattern to be. More colors in a crayon box if you will.


Anyway, back to McCall’s 6649. I created a sloper from this pattern and transferred all of the pertinent markings to posterboard. All of the seam allowances have been cut off here and there are holes and notches in specific places. Putting a pattern like this on posterboard is fantastic because then when I’m ready to create a new top from this pattern, I can just trace it off  in a matter of seconds. The posterboard is stiff so you can just trace around it really easily.

In the Craftsy class, Sarah shows you some really great hacks. And these are just starting points. I mean you really do have the entire world at your feet when you start creating your own patterns – from patterns that already fit you! Since you’ve already addressed the fit, that tends to not be a problem anymore. You might run into some issues here and there, but they are minimal by comparison.

All in all, I’m very very pleased with how my hacks have turned out from this process. It took a lot of time, but was well worth the investment. Onward and upward from here. Have you gone through this process before? What kinds of slopers do you have? If you haven’t, I can’t recommend something like this enough. You learn a ton about fitting and about your body and what things you should be looking out for when you go to try a new sewing pattern. Plus then there’s the creative gratification that comes from creating a pattern of your very own. Fun, fun!

  • Aline - Thank you so much for posting this. That particular Craftsy class is in my cue as well – I really feel the urge to do something with it now. I love what you managed to do with the pattern, and I particularly like the cream version, with the beautiful fabric. (And yes, I also need three versions before getting there, where patterns are concerned, so a good sloper would be more than welcome! I think I should just start and get on with it.)ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I think you would be glad you did once you were done. I’ve been taking my sloper out a TON and playing around with different ideas for different blouses from it – even dresses! It’s getting a ton of play and use from me.ReplyCancel

  • Becky - Thank you! I’ve had that class in my Crafty listing for ages and never “found” the time to watch it. I am watching one class each morning this week. This is exactly what I want to do!Thank you!ReplyCancel

  • Crimson Needle - I’ve been interested in learning the sloper approach to sewing/pattern making and have been looking at books on slopers I could buy, but reviews seems to often be mixed on their quality, so I’ve been eyeing the bodice sloper class on Craftsy and the one you’ve mentionned (amongst so many others, I want to get them all..). It’s good to know I’ll get my moneys worth for the Many Shirts class when I buy it. I made some shirts in the past, but I see much room for emprouvement and would love to get (or make) a TNT shirt pattern.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I have to weigh in because I’ve purchased several patternmaking books over the course of several years. While they are all good and they have wonderful information, drafting a sloper from your measurements is well, just as hard as getting a pattern to fit you. It’s about a ton easier if you have a teacher there to help and hold your hand a bit, but if you’re doing it on your own, I definitely say, take the Craftsy classes. It’s so much easier to be guided by someone than try to decipher how to do it on your own! You’ll go through about 1000 iterations of just the drafting trying to get it right – at least I did. I tried many, many different methods and books and found the same for all of them. Almost easier to just fit a sewing pattern from scratch.

      Once you have the base pattern though, pattern manipulation is easy peasy. And fun! You can do many many things and it gets really exciting the more you play around with your sloper. fReplyCancel

  • melissa - I’ve taken the sloper class on Craftsy, but this one seemed really interesting as well. The theory behind it sounds pretty fascinating!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I think the sloper class would be well worth the time – also have that one in my cue. I found this class really approachable. I like that she used a regular sewing pattern and then took that pattern and created a bunch of different blouses from it. It’s really creative and fun! So many possibilities.ReplyCancel

  • Judi Short - I like the concept of a sloper, but I just don’t wear too many shirts, so I overlooked this class. I will take another look. Thanks, Sunni!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I think there’s one for pants too if I’m not mistaken. A Craftsy class I mean. Same idea. You take a pair of pants and create all the different pants patterns that you want from a single pattern. Makes it so you don’t have to deal with fitting a new pattern. It’s quite liberating and fun!ReplyCancel

  • mary - I have a pants and a skirt sloper. I have really worked on the ginger jeans and archer shirt patterns into my idea of perfect jeans and button up patterns. They aren’t slopers but now I am curious about doing that. I really believe in taking the time to fine tune patterns , it has been totally worth it for me. I got really tired of reinventing the wheel each go around with mixed results.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Amen! I hear ya sister! Trying to fit new sewing patterns gets so old. Gosh, I got so sick of starting at square zero everytime I wanted to make something a little different and so, it really was finally time to get some slopers done. They are a lot of work, but in the end, I’m so much happier with how these work instead of trying to fit a new sewing pattern.ReplyCancel

  • Kate - Perfect timing on this topic! I was just doing some fitting through a new craftsy class (not the one you’ve mentioned but I will be checking it out now) and wondering if I could apply my new form fitting pattern as a sloper of sorts. Thanks for the insight.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I’m sure you can. Fitting is the #1 reason people don’t sew their own clothes. When you start taking the fit out of the equation, it makes you want to sew more and believe me, you do! You can start cranking out patterns and projects left and right.ReplyCancel

  • BeckyLeeSews - I truly miss wearing shirts with buttons. Or even a shirtdress as the retro look is coming back. But my bust has a fuller shape from the sides so all RTW blouses get the gappies on me. Honestly, why sew a shirt I have to keep closed with safety pins? This class is in my Crafty wish list but haven’t taken the plunge yet. You’ve convinced me now that I may find my answer here. The idea of perfecting a pattern sloper has been brewing so I think on their next sale I’ll get it.

    On a side note, I mentioned you and your Crafty class on zippers in my latest blog post. I reference that class ALL the time. Can you do a post about a dress with a lining and an invisible zipper? One that has that nice machine finish?ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I’m sure I could come up with something! Give me a bit and I’ll see if I can’t put this together!

      As for the Craftsy class I’m talking about here, I do want to state that it’s not a fitting class by any means. Sarah Holden only talks and goes into depth about pattern drafting. But I still think the class would be worth everyone’s while. The pattern drafting alone is great and it really does get you to think outside the box. I know exactly what you mean about wearing button-up shirts. I never did for a long time either because they never fit across the back. Couldn’t put my arms in front of me! Now I can that I make my own. It’s marvelous!ReplyCancel

  • Melissa - Since I drafted my bodice, skirt and pant sloper from the book European Cut by Elizabeth Allemong, they have been invaluable to achieving fit that is 95% right the first time. The other 5% is the vagaries of the pattern and fabric I’m using which can be dealt with, with a muslin and then I’m good to go to make multiples :) I also use RTW items in my wardrobe to compare then tweak the patterns.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Yes, I’m completely on board with you here! I feel the same way about the fit and I usually tend to make a muslin, if only just to check things like the neckline and such. Otherwise, the fit is so much easier and all I have to worry about is the design. Fun!ReplyCancel

  • eimear - great post – and good mention of making up 3 times to work out kinks. i can draft patterns but i am so impatient working thru the testing. the coat i just finished took 3 drafts and toiles – and i still have to fine tune the pattern but at least its 90% there. i learned pattern drafting and cutting years ago, and must look up those classes (and hopefully they do centimetres as training was in cm….) to review my own work practicesReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I don’t remember her using a lot of measurements, but sadly they are in inches. So sorry! We definitely need to convert over to the metric system! ugh!ReplyCancel

  • Ani - Someday I’ll get to only 3 tries before fitting! It took me 8 Sorbettos before I got one that fit. Three sounds like a lovely goal!

    I am honestly still a little scared of the idea of a blank slate. I’m not familiar enough with my body and how clothes fit it yet to be able to envision something. I do look forward to that time, though, because frankly, I also find it hard to envision something from a pattern fitting me. It helps to troll the internet for someone similar to my body shape who has made the pattern, but it’s still a wee bit exhausting.ReplyCancel

  • Fitting Thoughts on McCall’s 6649 | A Fashionable Stitch - […] all excited about creating your own patterns – from a pattern that already fits you – in my last post, I thought I would give you some fitting thoughts of what I went through with my versions of […]ReplyCancel

  • Haze Hammett - I have just finished fitting and putting together a dress sloper.
    But I don’t know what to do with it now. Take it apart and trace it? Keep the darts closed? I used Vogue dress sloper pattern and really all it does is tell you to keep fitting it, but how do I use it against other patterns so that I will know they fit? This thing was a lot of work and I don’t know how to use it now.

    Let me know if you have information on where to go from here.

    Thank you,

    Haze HammettReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Hi Haze! Some great questions here. Hopefully I can answer them and give you some insight. The concept of using your sloper up against another sewing pattern to diagnose the fit before you make it is, well, a hard one. Additionally, I personally feel – since this is a method that I have tried – that it is full of holes and you end up still have to make a muslin and work out some fitting issues. If you are hell-bent on this method, I recommend Lynda Maynard’s book Demystifying Fit. I would say that if you do want to do this method then you do need to take your muslin apart and copy it onto paper. You’ll need to do this if you want to create sewing patterns from it, so I recommend that you do that step.
      If you want to create your own sewing patterns – which I find to be a much superior method to trying to use it to fit other sewing patterns – then I would recommend the Craftsy class above to give you a taste of how this works. You could still use your bodice section for most of the designs in the class or take the ideas and apply them to your sloper. There’s also a book called, Design Your Own Dress Patterns by Adele Margolis that is excellent and can take you through how to hack up your pattern to be something different.
      Hopefully this gives you a little direction!ReplyCancel

  • Kat Skinner - I loved Sarah’s class, though I stopped part way through to focus on Patternmaking Basics: The Bodice by Suzy Furrer. I have drafted and redrafted my bodice sloper so many times now that I’ve lost count! I’m trying to get a perfect fit (I’d like to say couture but my skills aren’t that good).
    It’s really nice to see other sewers who are working on the same things as me.ReplyCancel

Last week, the mister and I had some reality checks and we made some pretty big decisions and well, here goes. We have decided to close the Sewing Room. There are oh, so many reasons, but the biggest one right now is that touchy subject – money. There’s just not enough of it in our lives right now. It was kind of a hard week for me. Moping about and wondering what in the world I’m going to do with the rest of my life. What am I going to do about retirement? What am I going to do when I actually grow up? Will we ever have kids? Will we ever own a home? That kind of stuff. I mean, I’m 32 (almost 33 in just a few weeks) and well, what am I going to do with the rest of my life??? Sometimes when reality slaps you right in the face, it feels like you need to start all over with a whole new dream, meet new people, go back to school, la la la. It can also feel like everything you’ve done up to this point was a mistake, should never have happened and didn’t turn out right. While I don’t feel that way per se, these thoughts have run through my head a lot lately.

It’s not all sad or bad and hopefully I’m not putting a bad vibe out there. I do actually feel great and positive. We were able to get out of the lease on the brick and mortar building we’ve been in for the past year and a half and wow – that elephant on my chest is finally gone. And I’m truly looking forward to picking up the pieces of what I have left and making something of it. I’ve dealt with a lot of bad juju for the past year and a half and I’m excited to recede back from the limelight of being a brick and mortar owner of anything. We might try something similar in the future again, but for now, I’m good with being done.

It’s been one of those times when I’ve thought long and hard about a lot of things and I’m looking forward to picking back up where I left off before I became a brick and mortar shop owner. The online shop is still open and will remain so, and we have some ideas for the future, though I’ll not say anything about those as they’re not even close to materializing or being a thing. We’ve still got lots and lots of kinks to work through.

So that’s my big bad news. A little crummy, but hopefully you can understand where I’m at. Feels good to be discovering new things about myself through new experiences. Don’t feel like it’s been a mistake, just a big learning experience that seriously, I’ve learned so much from. I’ll keep you updated on future stuff. Thanks to all of you for your wonderful support, encouragement and well, kindness. I’ve needed that!

  • lo - This is sad, but it also can be exciting for you to have a new journey. Good luck! Just from your website I know you’re talented and hardworking, so I’m sure anywhere you direct your energy you’ll do well in.ReplyCancel

  • Heather Lou - Oh sweetheart! I’m glad you guys figured it out and I hope you are not too heartsick about it. Leases are HARD. There was a big, glorious sewing workshop in Montreal that closed a year or two back and I’m blaming the extremely high rates of B&M rent. Whatever happens, I’m sure you will be okay, but the transition phase is always a little scary. Is it wrong I’m just sad I won’t be able to come to SLC to teach a workshop now and hang out with you? Ah well. On to the next thing Sunni!ReplyCancel

  • Robyn - I have enjoyed following your journey over the past couple of years. The highs and the lows. I am happy that you have realized your dream and gone for it and even happier that when the timing just did not feel right that you are able to comfortably turn things around. You are a very talented person and I admire your courage to do what you feel is right for you. Congratulations on your new path and opening a new door. (I hope you will continue to blog and I will continue to browse your online shop)ReplyCancel

  • Jan Macleod - I have just recently discovered your site. LOVE your look and ideas. I’m sorry you are having to make a tough financial decision, but you are brave to do so and smart to take stress of your plate. As a financial advisor, I have seen too many people put their heads in the sand and ignore the elephant on their chest until its too late. Kudos to you! I am also reminded of the phrase when one door closes another opens. You are very talented. Best to you!ReplyCancel

  • Virginia at A Sewing Life - Sunni, I am really sorry for the tough times and decisions you’ve had to deal with. I want you to know how much I admire you and your courage, and also how helpful your sharing your journey has been to me.

    Like you, I had/have an opportunity to buy a B&M fabric store. In my case, it is a business that has definitely seen better days. I have been so tempted to imagine that the shop in my town could return to its former glory days, but your story has been one factor helping me to be realistic and not to see just what I want to see.

    In the sixties and seventies, this shop flourished because there were more home sewers, home sewing was financially a better investment than it is now and the shop was the only dealer for a popular European sewing machine brand in our area. Working there was lovely and I felt a real pull to preserve this heritage institution, but the business reality just didn’t support it.

    Anyway, I really have benefited from reading about your journey. I wish it had taken a more lucrative track, but there can be no doubt about all the hard work and passion you have put into it. All the best to you!ReplyCancel

  • Kelly - I can hardly imagine how difficult this has been for you, though I can relate because I’m asking myself pretty much every question you listed up there and it’s hellish. I know it sounds funny coming from a stranger on the internet, but I’m so proud of you for making this difficult decision! It’s inspiring to me that you followed your dream and made an honest effort, but maybe even more so that you’ve also had the courage to ask these hard questions and do what works best for your life as it is now. It’s a really big deal.ReplyCancel

  • sallie - Oh Sunni, what a tough decision to make! I so admire you for having the clarity to take stock of your life and be able to say, “you know what, this isn’t working”. In the long run it’s the ability to make those hard decisions that make up a life, you know? But this isn’t the end of something, it’s the beginning of something! I’m excited for you! And I also want you to know that I can relate to your worries so SO much. I don’t own a store, but other than that I felt like I was reading my own thoughts up there. Just know we’re all rooting for you! xoxoReplyCancel

  • Mary Berry - Just started the website and is not up going yet. I am retired & do not like it. Wanted to get something going part time, miss the socialization, love to sew & crochet.

    Was thinking about opening a studio & have classes once in awhile. I already have a building, so that would not be a problem but did not want to get involved with materialistic things to sell. Maybe some items handmade just for fun, & enjoyment.

    What are the feelings about these ideals and pointers you guys could give me.

    All help appreciated.ReplyCancel

  • MarilynSweet - You’ve done a lot for the sewing community and advanced us all just a little bit forward. I enjoy your posts and wish you the very best. Thank you for all your hard work.ReplyCancel

  • Julie R. - Oh this is sad! I was never able to sign up for a class. The seeing scene in Salt Lake is really going to miss you. Good luck in your new adventures!ReplyCancel

  • vicki gainous - Sunni… you’re young and it’s great you took the risk. After you and your husband reassessed the situation, you two made an awesome decision. I’m looking forward to your blog post because I’ve learned a lot from you. I have changed careers three times in my forty plus years. Every decade gets better with time. You will discover your mojo and soar…… I hope to see when you two start posting pictures of babies. Take care and keep your head up.ReplyCancel

  • SJ Kurtz - I’m 56, and I’ve been there a couple of times, expect to be there a few more. I would like to hold your hand and reassure you, this is hard. This is very hard.
    You will emerge, it will be even better, you will look back at this and say “And that’s when I knew who I was going to be, and it all changed right there”. But it hurts like…well, whatever is the worst.
    Honor that. Mourn.
    But please don’t pile all the other stuff (home, kids, climate change) on top of it. That stuff is separate. Yes, it’s related, but it’s not all happening right now. It’s “Just put one foot in front of the other time”.
    And if you haven’t closed yet, have a wake at the store. Your clients will be sad, too. Having been to a few of these, we need to mourn, too.ReplyCancel

  • Tasia - It’s sad news to move on from something so huge in your life! But if you’re feeling like a weight has been lifted, then you know it’s the right move. I’ve enjoyed reading about your journey from the beginning to the end of this chapter and hope that good things are in store for you in the future! It’s never a mistake if you learned something from it.
    Those life questions are something I think we all face – what are we doing, is it the right thing, are we missing out by taking a different path, it’s all normal things to think. Or at least, I think them too. Whenever you do something that’s off the beaten path, it’s easy to question whether it’s the right choice. Whatever you decide to do next, follow your heart and when it feels right, you’ll know!ReplyCancel

  • June Lovell - hey kid: i started over at 31 with two kids. i took a civil service job with upward mobility. i relegated my sewing, embroidery, gardening and other fun pursuits to off duty hours and, of course, there weren’t many of them and i missed them a lot.

    i watched my friend who was crazy about photography wait for 10 years to get a full time teaching position at the local community college (there was only one photo instructor). another friend had her own fabric store in the lovely little town of Ojai, California (rich people and the idle poor, no in between).she finally went broke even with all the great classes she gave and services she provided (scissor sharpening!). my horse loving friends, my dog loving friends, etc, etc.

    so, now i’ll be 70 on my next birthday, my great civil service job let me retire at 51! i was able to contribute to a 401k and i have one of those fabulous defined benefit retirements. i’ve been pursuing all of my loves and enjoying life.

    as Suze Orman says: you’re in your prime ‘compounding’ years, so now is the time to shove money in the Roth IRA and create your long term plan.

    very best wishesReplyCancel

  • Kaoru Marie - Totally bummed to hear the news as I was hoping The Sewing Room would turn into a great venture. I’m glad to hear you’re keeping the online shop open as you do have such lovely fabric. (I still don’t know what to do with that amazing purple plaid wool challis…it’s so precious I don’t want to ruin it!). I’m sure you’ll end up doing fantastic and can’t wait to hear about it. I really appreciate the honesty and openness you’ve shown on your blog and wish you the best of luck!ReplyCancel

  • Amanda - All of life is a journey, and even if this particular leg of your personal journey didn’t lead to where you expected it to go, it surely wasn’t a mistake or a waste of time, for if you hadn’t followed that path you’d always wonder what was down it :) Still, I know what you mean about wondering what you’re going to do with your life, and frankly I’m older than you and I’m always questioning that too – I am hoping when it’s the right time, I’ll just know! LOL

    On a personal note, I’m so very grateful you are keeping the online store open – it has been and will continue to be a very important and trusted resource for me and I look forward to seeing where you take it in the future! :)ReplyCancel

  • Elisabeth - These decisions are tough but it sounds like the best choice. Sometimes stuff just doesn’t work quite as we hope…And reality is that money is important and we can’t drive ourselves into the ground for a dream. Because then it isn’t fun anymore! So I applaud you for coming to the conclusion before you got totally burned out. And being also 32 (just in Jan) I hear you on the hello need to get on this life thing! I have the job part but while I love my career (I am an Occupational Therapist) I don’t love my setting (hospital) and have been having some major I need to do something different thoughts lately…Good luck to you on this next phase!ReplyCancel

  • Elle - Bricks and mortar or no, store or no store, you’ve contributed a great deal to the sewing community. You’ve got great talent, drive and imagination, so on to the next chapter with a light heart.ReplyCancel

  • Delois jennings - Do what you need to do for yourself and be happy. I love you for sharing but you did have to you. I am happy for you.
    You got a plan and this time you are including you.

    I will keep you in my prayers!ReplyCancel

  • Jessie - Seems like such a great decision for you and your family! Do you listen to podcasts? You might love Jess Lively (The Lively Show)… I have kept up with her for a few years and this sounds exactly like you listened to your gut and made the best and hardest decision. So excited to see what your new direction is.ReplyCancel

  • Joen - As they say when one door closes another one opens….I truly believe that someone as talented as you will no doubt have many new doors open. Stay positive!ReplyCancel

  • Carole - Bless you been there got the t-shirt and yes it was incredible hard making those decisions,but onwards and upwards sweetheart things will get better different yes,but with all the love and support you have you will soon look back and think wow look how far I have come and remember life is a journey not a destination and you are embarking on a new journey
    God bless you all love ‘n’ hugs

  • Christine - Hugs to you Sunni and your big decision to close up. Having taught and worked at many sewing spots, I know how hard they are to maintain and keep open. So props to you for even trying it at all. We are all faced with these life questions, and at 44, I still ask myself these all the time. Will I ever be able to retire? Was choosing an artist’s life a good choice? No one can answer these kinds of questions for you but you, so accept no judgement from anyone that wants to pass it onto you. That’s their crap, not yours. Go forward and learn from the past! Best of luck!ReplyCancel

  • Debera Massahos - I remember several years back, taking my annual walk through the Pacific International Quilt Festival. For a couple of hours, I followed a group who constantly criticized every quilt hanging at the festival. They found no shortage of things to criticize (color, scale, stitch length, stitch consistency, subject matter). One of the most vocal critics tried to engage me in the conversation and asked me what I thought of one of the pieces. I politely told her that “I like to think I make nice things but the biggest difference between the quilt I planned to enter and this quilt is that she FINISHED hers and put and on display for everyone to admire.” You’ve done something that we can see and admire. That’s brave! We all have moments of mourning, moping and wondering. But, from what I can see, you also have more bravery than most. And bravery, my dear, sets you apart. Best wishes!ReplyCancel

    • Judi - Debera – I love what you said!!!ReplyCancel

      • Jane - I second that! Very wise words. Now, Sunni, if you want to have a baby… GO! NOW! You can get back to lots of other things later on and babies don’t need anywhere near as much material stuff as many people think.ReplyCancel

  • Lacey - I am sure this was a very tough experience to come through. I admire your perseverance and willingness to go out on a limb, and also your humility in being able to admit when it’s time to change course. Very best of luck in your upcoming chapter!ReplyCancel

  • Rachel Whitchurch - You are wonderful Sunni! So sorry for the hard decision and tough times. You have done amazing things and I’m sure you have amazing times in the future. You are one of the hardest working people I know and I’ve always admired your strengths. Best of luck and you are in my prayers!ReplyCancel

  • Stephani - Oh, Sunni, what a bummer! But as others have said, if your prime feeling is relief, then it’s the right choice. You’ve been so brave charging after your dreams, even if they didn’t pan out. That is what life is all about. And from this experience you may find the direction you’ve been searching for that you’ll travel the rest of your days. We all wonder if we’re on the right path–sometimes, often, frequently–throughout life. But I’ve found the most important things, no matter what else, are to be true to yourself and to be adaptable. Those who can’t adapt may never spring back from failures; but you will. (Not to say that the enterprise’s failure is a life failure–it’s a learning experience.)
    Best of luck in whatever comes next for you. And keep up the amazing work with your shop–it’s so good to have someone out there sourcing the hard-to-find things.ReplyCancel

  • Sharon Ann Mathewson - Very brave decision on your part. You are very lucky to have a understanding hubby! I will abide by your choice, and hopefully will continue to receive my email.ReplyCancel

  • Tiffany - Don’t feel bad! I don’t know how people can afford to run brick and mortar stores unless they bought the real estate decades ago when it was cheap (I dream of one day having some sort of shop myself, but it will never be financially feasible). At the same time, don’t let this stop you from trying new adventures!ReplyCancel

  • Miss J - Try again at a later time when your fortunes have changed. You’re so talented and a great tutor, more so than others doing the same thing. it would be a shame not to have “The Sewing Room” revived!ReplyCancel

  • Heather - Oh Sunni, what a tough announcement! All these things are a part of the journey and I’m sure you’ve learned so much through each experience, so nothing wasted. I so look forward to what is coming next for you! Good luck with everything!ReplyCancel

  • Amy - Hi Sunni! I’m so sorry to hear about your store closing, but I’m glad you sound so positive about the future. I look forward to hearing what’s next for you!!ReplyCancel

  • Uta - Sunni, I’m so sorry it didn’t work out. I admired your courage and energy in this enterprise and loved following your adventures. You have a unique and authentic blogging voice and sewing style, and I’m sure you’ll figure out a way to make it work for you. All the best!ReplyCancel

  • candie tancred - I hope when one door closes, another opens. You are very open and brave. Best wishes from Australia.ReplyCancel

  • Mary J - Once the hard decision is made, you can step back and breathe. I know that it feels like a failure, but it isn’t. It is actually a success that you could make the decision that is right for you and the hubby.
    I am glad that you will keep the online store open.
    Much success to you in the future.

  • Chris Griffin - (HUGS)
    I’m turning 33 next month, and sometimes I worry about the whole direction of my life. You are NOT alone. I wish I had more to help you, but I love your blog and I think you have great taste :)ReplyCancel

  • Ann T. - I started law school on the eve of my 30th birthday. That was a long time ago, but I remember very well thinking about how I was older than my classmates, and getting a very late start in life. I graduated, worked as an attorney, made partner, worked as a judge, and retired. Looking back, I see that, although many people find their direction in their twenties, many never find it at all, and many change their minds and careers later in life. I urge you to consider what you want to do, and then make a realistic plan to get there, without giving a thought to your age or the passage of time, because both are irrelevant. Regardless of what you decide to do, you have plenty of time to get there. Making a living associated with your passion for sewing is a little tricky. Probably, it is only slightly more realistic than being a professional artist. However, if it is what you feel compelled to do, then you must consider which avenues to follow. Perhaps you could work for someone else, and learn the ropes, before embarking on your own business. Perhaps you could make a living out of your blog. I read interior design blogs before I got into sewing, and noticed that those blogs make a lot of money from affiliate advertising. For some reason, sewing blogs are sensitive about that, but I don’t understand why. It could be a good solution for you, because it is something that would allow you to stay home, and raise children, while working. Please forgive me for getting caught up in details. I only want to reassure you that you have enough time to do whatever you decide to do.ReplyCancel

  • Holly - ive been following your blog for a long time now and was so hoping this would all work out for you. I follow way to many sewing blogs but you’ve always been one of my top 5 favourites. I think the retail landscape has changed so much it makes things so hard now for small business owners. I try and shop as much as I can at my local small sewing store and the larger local sewing stores because I would be so sad if they closed. All the best Sunni, and I’m off to browse your online store!ReplyCancel

    • Holly - Also I’m on my way to 38 and not even remotely doing what I thought I would be at this age so don’t worry, you are not alone and at 33 you have the life experience to make better decisions and learn from your experiences. All the best!ReplyCancel

  • Becky - I don’t think this whole adventure was a mistake. I’ve never owned a shop, but I’ve worked for a small one, and did enough behind-the-scenes work to know that the retail business is tough, and so, so demanding. Especially when you’re the one running the shop. Just take some time for yourself, enjoy the down time with your husband, and regroup. I’m glad to know the online shop will still stay open, and I’m wishing you all the best in figuring out your next move!ReplyCancel

  • Susan Hedges - I am so inspired by your willingness to try and follow your dreams. It is hard when what you try doesn’t work out, especially when it comes down to money and you have poured your heart and soul into it. But you should be so proud of what you have accomplished and continue to do with your blog. I look forward to hearing about your next adventure.

    Just know that you have a large following of supporters rooting for you!ReplyCancel

  • Wendy Hillhouse - “To make an end is to make a beginning. The end is where we start from.”

    “When you don’t know where you’re going, any road will take you there.”ReplyCancel

  • BeckyLeeSews - Oh Sunni, Sounds like a midlife crisis girl! Birthdays have a way of doing that to you. Sorry about the store but glad you are thinking about children. I know it’s fashionable to wait until your 30’s for kids, but Mother Nature has never heard of “fashionable”. Waiting longer can become unhealthy for you and your baby. My friend is having her first on/near her 35th birthday so her doctor told her she’s high risk. Don’t want that for you. Been following you for years and love your blog. I learned a ton from you. Ask God for guidance and He will show you the way. Best wishes.ReplyCancel

    • BeckyLeeSews - Another thought… Who knows? Your exploration of pattern hacks may lead you to design your own pattern line – AFS Kids. Or put those yards of excess lace into christening gowns and Easter dresses. The job of being a mommy can inspire an entirely new (and profitable) path for your sewing passion!ReplyCancel

  • eimear - I am so sorry that you had to make that decision, and it cannot have been easy. I really like your blog and the affectionate way you can write about fabric – which is a gift in more ways than one. Years ago – i used teach kids art and do printmaking workshops, and i called a halt to it (money was a key decider) but i also had a lack of vision with it so it was always going to be finite, and looking back it was also limiting me. I cannot give you any advice, nor would I want to presume , but I do wish you the very best of luck and I so hope you keep posting as I really enjoy your writings, and admire your style.ReplyCancel

  • Kay - A special thanks to you for the fun things you’ve brought back into my life! I had gotten away from apperal sewing and didn’t relalise how I’ve missed it. But now I have a little more time and it’s been great . Sorry about how life happens.
    Also thanks for the online shop ! Be Happy you still have lots to share in your life !ReplyCancel

  • Jet Set Sewing - Those kind of changes are always a kick in the seat, but the one thing you’ll take from this experience is KNOWLEDGE, and it will always be useful. As someone reinventing herself (again) in my mid-50s, all of that knowledge, good and bad, really helps with decision-making. In the meantime, telling people in job interviews that you created and ran a business shows that you’re a self-starter, and that’s a good selling point.ReplyCancel

  • Ashley - I’m sorry that this venture didn’t work out for you. I speak from experience when I say it is difficult to feel like you have failed at a creative endeavor. I currently am creative only for fun, and while it is freeing to not have the pressure of making a living from it, I do wish that my day job was creative as well. I wish you luck and can’t wait to hear about what the future holds for you.ReplyCancel

  • Gail - Sorry to hear you’ve had to close up shop. Remember that sometimes good things come out of bad experiences. You are talented and saavy – success is on its way!ReplyCancel

  • lisa g. - I am so sorry to hear that this didn’t work out for you! You have so much knowledge to offer, I’m sure you’ll find a new path. I know exactly how you feel about the whole “what to do with my life” question. I feel like I’m asking myself the same things, for very different reasons. All the best as you work out where to go from here!ReplyCancel

  • sarah - It’s so hard to keep doing something if it just weighs you down and drains your energy. I’m glad that you feel relieved now and I know we’ll see so much more fun stuff from you in the future!ReplyCancel

  • Sharon - Oh Sunni, I’m so selfishly heartbroken to hear this news. But I admire your courage for sharing the news so openly and honestly. Every time I reach a “crisis” in my life I find comfort in the fact that I have always tried to live with intention and therefore I am living the life that I have chosen and not someone else’s version of my life. Good luck in your new endeavors.ReplyCancel

  • Reana Louise - Big, huge news – but you are so strong to make such a big, huge decision! So much love to you both xReplyCancel

  • Tracey - So Sorry to hear this Sunni! There is plenty of time for you two to start your family- the hard part was finding that someone who can make those hard decisions with you!! I am sure you are going to be on to bigger and better things! Best of luck to you both!xxooReplyCancel

  • a Brand New Something for 2015 | A Fashionable Stitch - […] 2015, the Sewing Room is now officially closed. If you are interested you can read more about it here. Thanks so much for the memories and for all of your support. Means the world to me! xx, […]ReplyCancel

  • Sanni - What hard news. I’m so sorry. It’s not the end of the world, but it is the end of something. Why shouldn’t you mourn that? I don’t subscribe to the “everything happens for a reason” theory. No. Sometimes painful things happen to the least deserving people and it totally, completely stinks.

    What you’ve done now is listen to your partner (who is both your supporter and reality checker.) You agreed to stop a business model that wasn’t going to work for your family in the long run, for whatever reason. You do need health care and a retirement, however modest, and if the numbers weren’t there — which you could only find out by doing everything you did so far — then it’s just smart to call time. A very reasonable step. You gave this every chance, and ultimately just discovered that the math was just stacked against you. That’s OK. Business is like that. Stop, regroup, restart.

    If it helps you at all, I had to make a similar decision about my successful (sold everything I made x 8 years of gradually rising prices) but financially untenable art career. The decision to let go of all the hard-won client lists, studio lease and gallery relationships was painful. Although in the end, also freeing. I found other work, and my family benefited.

    You’re young. You’ve done so much at only 32. You have lots of time to make two more careers, plus have a family if that’s what you want. You might not even realize yet, just how much you’ve learned. Nothing you learned is wasted; neither the good nor the bad. All your experiences made you the person, the expert, and the entrepreneur that you are. All that will pay off somewhere else. Best of luck. Please keep blogging if it gives you pleasure, because it sure does do that for us, your readers.ReplyCancel

  • Hannah - It’s really strange everything you have said I feel completely the opposite! I’m 31 have been to University have a really good job, own a house about to buy a bigger house but I really miss my parents old shop (it was a needlework, knitting, craft shop) and lately I have been feeling like if I did the right thing by going into science and not taking on the shop. So I guess what I’m saying is even across the pond in the UK what you have been thinking might not have been the right choices for a career if you had done it differently perhaps how you think you should have done it you would have the regrets for not having the brick and mortar shop 😉 I’m trying to work out a way to make both my creative, business and science work!!!ReplyCancel