There comes a time in every woman’s life (I might be prone to exaggerate just a tad) that she has to face the need for new underpinnings. I don’t know about you, but for me this is such a needle in a haystack. I can look forever and ever for just the right bra or just the right underwear or as the case may be, just the right slip. And correct me if I’m wrong, but especially in the slip department, there are some serious, serious deficits. Even if you can find something, it’s usually an arm and a leg, or it’s just….grose.

Well, I couldn’t even find anything. Nothing. Not a thing. I’ve looked. I’ve scoured. I’ve even tried to find vintage slips at the thrift and right now, there seems to be a serious slip MIA because I finally decided to stop wasting my time and energy and just make something! Personally, I have nothing against making underpinnings of any kind, I just usually always opt to make something else first. But when the need arises, I’ll rise to the occasion.


I had purchased Gertie’s Butterick 6031 awhile back. I was out with my mom and we were getting a few patterns from the local JoAnn. I couldn’t resist this particular pattern because the slips just look so pretty on the model and with some things I make, I do like to wear a slip. I waited several weeks before I even picked up the pattern again and decided that it needed to be made. I just finished up a wool knit wrap dress and was in desperate need of a nice slip to wear underneath.


I pulled out my fabric and found a few micro jerseys to choose from (where I find all this fabric, I have no idea, sometimes it feels like it just magically appears). This is the fabric that Gertie recommends as per her sewalong and I had picked up the nude from Emma One Sock and the grey/blue and lavender from a local fabric shop (Designer’s Resource, if you live here in SLC). There are a few other fabrics that I think would work wonderfully in this pattern, namely swimsuit fabric and/or lining. I’ve seen some of those at the local JoAnn and do think they would do a marvelous job, but if you’re looking for these micro jerseys be on the lookout from something that falls away from the skin, feels cool to the touch and is usually a polyester and spandex blend. Usually something like 92% polyester and 8% spandex. They stretch in both directions but recover immediately.



Anyway, once the fabric was set, all that was left was finding all the notions that one needs for this project. I can see why Gertie did kits for this because there are several things that you need. I happened to have leftover stretch lace from my shop – a blessing since this calls for quite a bit. I actually forgot that I had picot edge elastic and instead used some swimsuit elastic for my first slip and just folded over the elastic and did that fancy straight stitch zig-zag. I had to send off for the strap elastic and rings and sliders (bramakerssupply.com) but I was pleasantly surprised with the quick shipping. For my first rendition I used the strap elastic for the whole of the strap as I didn’t have any of the right width of stretch lace and then for my second and third rendition, I got on a comfort soapbox and tried something else. For those, I opted to make a strap from swimsuit elastic that was encased in the matching micro jersey. First I attached to one edge with a zig-zag and then then folded over twice and did the fancy straight stitch zig-zag. Uber, uber comfy and doesn’t cut into my shoulder (I am so picky about comfort, it’s almost ridiculous!). Stole the idea from a bra I love.


And then I just made silly little bows from the outrageous amount of ribbon I have and voila! Done! I made the third – the nude version – in about 3 hours time, cut to finish. Addicting for sure and a project that I highly recommend. While I don’t look like the model in the finished slips (yup, I have a tummy!!!) I still feel pretty, they do the job and they are so comfortable. All wins in my book!

If you’re interested, here’s my full review. And now, off to make another wrap dress before I put it all together.

  • Sherine - This is so nice. I need to find the time to make one. The challenge is the supplies as for some reason the shops don’t seem to stock these stuff anymore. Please post the wrap dress when you make it. I have the fabric already :)ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I know – the supplies are not easy to get your hands on. Even online I found that they are fairly expensive and most times you can’t even get it all in the same place anyway. If you hop over to Kollabora and read my review, it might give you some ideas for how to save. I used swimsuit elastic (which can be found at Joann and Hancock) in a couple of places.
      I’m definitely planning on posting my wrap dress(es!)! They are marvelous to wear!ReplyCancel

  • Meg White - I love reading your blog! These slips are lovely.ReplyCancel

  • Lisa G - These are beautiful! Been meaning to make a slip for a long time… need to gather supplies and do it already!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I’m sure yours will be fabulous! I love everything you make!ReplyCancel

  • Jennifer Shaw - Wow! I love how beautiful your slips turned out. Curiously enough, I need to make a slip for a dress that I did not make. Thank you for inspiring me to get going with my project!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - They are so easy and so satisfying – definitely worth the extra effort, time and energy. You’ll probably end up making more than just one. Seems to be a catching thing!ReplyCancel

  • Holly - as an absolute “detester of polyester” I have made two of these slips in silk jersey (94% silk, 6%lycra) and have a 3rd planned. I also made a version in 100% silk jersey that doesn’t have the recovery needed but I wear it as PJ’s and it’s comfortable for that.

    I’ve also made a gazillion pairs of underwear from the underwear pattern and a modified thong pattern I made from it.

    Best and most used pattern I own!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I agree – I do not love polyester, but these were surprising finds. I would love to make one from silk jersey though! But it’s so hard to find the stuff. Where did you find yours? Do share!
      I will say that I do love these micro jerseys. They are incredibly comfortable and seem to hold up quite well to lots of wear and tear even though they are semi sheer. Doesn’t snag easily either.ReplyCancel

  • Becky Thompson - Living in super-hot south Texas, I’ve never really worn a slip. But now that I’m over 50, I’m kind of…well, lumpy. There. I said it. Anyway, a slip smooths out all those lumps under clingy clothing. My slips as a girl were made out of tricot and you simply can’t find any that doesn’t cost an arm and a leg – there isn’t any at local fabric sources in San Antonio, and online is crazy expensive! I’m not a fan of the new microfiber anything because it doesn’t breath like I need in this humid heat and it’s kind of clingy too. Maybe I’ll see if I can find some in the mix you posted about. Now that my shape is changing and I have the skills, I’ll start making my own “smalls” myself.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - And I have to say, I don’t even know if I’ve ever felt or seen a good tricot either! Kind of a hard thing to find. Finding the right fabric for this project can be kind of hard. I would definitely recommend trying one of the swimsuit fabrics or linings from Joann and see what you think. Would love to know how it worked out too!ReplyCancel

    • Marnie - Have you taken a look at Bra Makers Supply for tricot? Her product, FT-31 is a nylon/spandex blend in 13 colors. I can’t speak to the feel, but I’m sure if you emailed her she’d give you an idea of what to expect.ReplyCancel

  • Linda Galante - I could use a few new ‘underpinnings’ myself. Yours are lovely, and quite inspirational.ReplyCancel

  • Stephanie - These slips are so pretty! I’m glad you got around to making them. I have been wanting to make up this pattern, as well as other underpinnings patterns, for some time now. I always think of it when I am in need of a slip and only have a terrible alternative. You motivate me to just go ahead and make it already! Really nice job :)ReplyCancel

  • Nancy Nichols - I’d suggest .Sunni, given your terrific sewing skills, that you try this in a silk charmeuse and cut it on the bias. I have a wonderful 1930s vintage slip that is all bias diamonds. Fits like a dream and a knit dress just glides over the bumpy bits. I am in awe of your ability to use a machine to do those zig zag finishing stitches! My machine usually decides to go out for a smoke, or something, when I need that level of detail!
    Nancy NReplyCancel

  • Sonja - These are so pretty and delicate! I have to confess that I have a beautiful, but translucent, silk dress that I’ve never worn once- I cheaped out on buying the matching slip because I thought, “oh, I could make one myself”… but then I never did. Oops!ReplyCancel

I’ve been working on some nice and well, rather uneventful sewing projects lately. I thought it worth highlighting some great tools/articles/information I’ve been using as of late. I just love anything and everything that can make my sewing life easier and my end result more professional. Seriously, a tailor’s ham is a girl’s best friend. The right shears/cutting tools make you feel like getting up in the morning. Having the right iron is like having that one best friend that will never, ever tell any of your secrets to another living soul – even if they were tortured! What better way to celebrate these small daily sewing spots than to pass the tips along to you!


Have you tried this stuff? It’s like crack for ironing addicts. It’s like way way way better than starch (and I am a starch lovin kind of gal and no, don’t you dare question my age!!!)! Mary Ellen, whoever you are, you’ve won my heart with your Best Press. It can only receive a glowing commendation from me.


Tanya Whelan came out with this lovely book a bit ago. I have been relishing it as a bit of a treasure because I love how it teaches you how to manipulate/draft patterns to be something else instead of reinventing the wheel with trying to fit yet another pattern. And she gives you a basic pattern to start with as a base. So you’ll fit the one pattern and then guess what? You can manipulate the pattern to be the other dresses in the book and those will fit you too! Y’all know how much I love this idea. It’s like smart and stuff.


Since I’ve been playing around with doing some of the above from Tanya’s book recently, I’ve also had the chance to use this little guy. Claire’s Curve Runner is pretty amazing. So clever. It’s so nice to be able to measure a curve without having to break out the measuring tape. Claire is kickstarting a business, so I think it’s only apropos that she gets some help. Small business is not for the faint of heart, as I’ve told you before. And these clever tools she’s got are worth every penny. Do go and give her some support.


I am not a Pellon enthusiast. But, I will say that this lite tear away stabilizer is absolutely amazing for buttonholes. I doubt that you’ll need it for all buttonholes, but when it comes to working with fine shirtings that tend to be on the thinner side, this makes all the difference. The buttonholes on my machine tend to bunch up and pucker. Well, no more! No more! I use this stuff on the underside as I stitch a buttonhole onto my garment and then voila – I tear the excess away! They end up looking marvelous.


And I can finally let the cat out of the bag on this collaboration. I’m excited to be apart of the Sewing Party this year. Even better, I got a new friend. Pernell’s got a way with pretty much everything. Gorgeous buttonholes (speaking of), beautiful stitching, topstitches through granite, has a clever little ant stitch, has a giant free arm space (love this so much) and has more gadgets and gizmos than I even know what to do with. Those Pfaff Performance 5.0’s are in a league of their own. I’m loving mine! Promise: a full run down later on. I’m sure you’ll want to know all the dirty deets on Pernell. Oh and don’t miss my post on how to line an easy skirt, aka the Hollyburn Skirt – my favorite!


xx, Sunni

  • Becky - Good to see you! These all look like great tips. Pernell????ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I know. Pernell! But maybe I should just say Purrrrrnell as she purrs along so wonderfully. You know you’ve gone off the deep end when you start naming your machines – and then talking to them like their human. Sigh…ReplyCancel

  • Sharon Alderman - I am delighted to find that you have a presence on the Internet even though your stores (brick and web) are closed. I used to make all my own clothes but as a weaver I find that my small business claims all my time–plus I like weaving a LOT! But I still like learning the kind of thing you are offering. So, a big thanks!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Oh thank you Sharon! Your weaving is so inspirational! I know how it is to find that “thing” that you just love to do. It gives you daily little “puzzles” to solve that you find so fascinating – this is how I feel about sewing. It’s marvelous when you get to a point where you really feel great about what you do and then you feel a bit proud of yourself when you’ve mastered something or found out something new about it. It’s marvelous!ReplyCancel

  • Tracy - Congrats on being a part of the Sewing Party!! and your new machine :-)
    You have the curve runner already?! I can’t wait to get mine; there have been several times I could have used it already… Interestingly, I bought her 3/8″ curve pattern drafter ruler thing a couple of years ago and use it a lot more than I had anticipated.
    I like Best Press, too, but, mercy it’s too pricey for regular use for me. I stick with Magic Sizing.
    I take your recommendations seriously (finally bought the one-blouse-many-looks class on Craftsy) so I think I’ll add Tanya’s book to my (ever growing) wishlist. Thanks!
    Looking forward to the other parts in this series…ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Thank you Tracy! Oh my goodness, I’m so glad you got the Craftsy class – I do hope you enjoy it. I found it so fascinating, wonderfully put together and the blouses she made were inspiring and I felt like I could incorporate her tips and techniques into everything I was doing. Great, great class.

      Yes, I’ll agree about the Best Press being pricey, but I do love it so. I try to use my Joann coupon on it. And then I save it for my best shirts and pants too.ReplyCancel

  • Colleen - You are the best for introducing cool products. I just ordered this book on your recommendation — I can’t wait to get it.

    I’m a little confused about how the curve guide works….I went to look at it and you can order it in different wheel sizes….does it have to do with your size?ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Oh I think you’ll love the book. I found it great to see all the different and exciting manipulations you could do to the pattern. Such an easy to use book too. I love the way she’s got it mapped out. Really lovely and such great tips and tricks.

      The curve runner is pretty clever. Let me give you an example of how I use it and then you can hopefully get an idea from that. I sometimes mess with the sleeve cap on sleeves and this tool works really great when you need to measure a curved seamline. I just take the runner, start at one end and then run it along the seamline of the cap and watch how many rotations it makes along the way to the other end. Then I can compare that measurement to the measurement of the armscye. I find it doesn’t have anything really to do with your size, but I am eyeing the larger one too as then I wouldn’t have to count so many rotations (I’m so lazy!). It’s surprisingly useful. Like really surprising. I had some serious doubts about it, but I use ALL the time now. Love it!ReplyCancel

      • Colleen - Oooohhhhhhhh. I see. So that would be useful for someone like me who’s always changing up sleeves (using your example).

        I love the book, btw. I spent this morning reading it and now I want to go out and buy more fabric because new book means new fabric. I’ll try to contain myself to my stash.

        Thanks for the curve!ReplyCancel

  • Sewer - I’ve gone to the site and am still unsure how the Curve Runner works. Do you start with the wheel at zero, roll, and then hold it in place with your finger? Is there a locking mechanism?

    Does the Best Press coat the iron?ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Yes, I start with the wheel at zero and then when I come to the point that I want to end at, I just hold it in place and take the measurement and how many rotations the wheel has made. No locking mechanism on mine. They are well crafted and I love the clear plastic as you can really see what you’re doing from so many angles. Hopefully this helps! See above too as I gave Colleen an example.

      The Best Press doesn’t coat my iron and it doesn’t leave the “white stuff” and it just makes such a nice press on everything. I’ve also found that if you spill or stain something that yourself then when you go to wash it, it comes out a ton easier. It’s pretty much magic in a bottle.ReplyCancel

  • Maria Shell - Great posts. I will be getting book and the starch for sure! What size Curver Runner do you think would be best? How do you decide that? Thank you!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I have one of the smaller ones, and I’m eyeing the bigger ones myself. Personally, I say the bigger the better! Then you don’t have to count so many rotations. Still loving mine though – use it a bunch!ReplyCancel

  • mrsmole - Love the Best Press and Curve Runner and looking forward to the larger size coming out. I buy Best Press by the gallon on Amazon. Thanks for sharing your best secrets, Sunni!Love your blog!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Oh thank you for this tip! I might just have to do that too – Amazon for Best Press everyone! Yay!ReplyCancel

  • Linda - Just a short note to say that I enjoy your blog, and your recomendations, and have done so for several years now. Keep up the good work, and well done on valuing your time and making some income from it. Home sewing is so often undervalued – yet it is one of the most rewarding and creative hobbies we can do. cheers.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Oh thank you Linda! It is an undervalued skill and yet so much could be learned from it. I was talking to someone the other day about drafting patterns and I was like, “It’s all geometry! All of it! I’m wearing geometry! It would have been so much easier for me to understand geometry if we had drafted a sewing pattern in school!!!!” Wouldn’t that be awesome? I would love to teach that class! “Hey Class, today we’re going to learn how to adjust a commercial sewing pattern to fit you by applying some geometry. Let’s go!”ReplyCancel

  • Holly - Always happy to see one of your posts as they are always super informative. I’m a little confused though as I’ve had one of these “curve runners” for a few years, bought at the same time as my two S/A curve rulers. I noticed that business disappeared for a while and then came back, is it the same person just relaunching?ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - Oh this I don’t know! It’s possible that Claire tried to start up on her own and found that herself without enough funding – I’ve been there a number of times. It always takes so much more than we even plan for with business startups. But hopefully she’s got some good backing with her Kickstarter plan and we can see her get more steady. Keeping my fingers crossed for her! Glad to have a curve runner! Yay!ReplyCancel

  • K-Line - You always find the neatest new things – just bought that curve measurement gizmo. Can’t tell you how often I’ve needed one of those over the years. Thanks!ReplyCancel

  • Becky Thompson - Hi Sunni! My Curve Runner just arrived in the mail and I was turned on to the gizmo through Lladybird’s blog mention about Clair’s Kickstarter effort. I love it! And I’m all over all those other tools you mentioned too. I really enjoyed your post since is reaffirms I’m fully armed for the cause! You’re a great blogger and you (and Lauren) were inspirations to get mine up and running. Now I’m hopping over to Amazon from you link to grab that book!ReplyCancel

  • Annette - Are you saying that your new Pfaff performance 5.0 makes buttonholes that bunch and pucker, or are you referring to another machine? I’m curious because I’m considering this machine! Thanks!ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - No, no, no! The machine is beautiful and makes a glorious buttonhole stitch. But I’m saying that on every machine I’ve tried where I am using a very fine cotton shirting or voile (meaning they are quite thin) that sometimes there is a tendency for the buttonholes to pucker in on themselves (goes for my Bernina too!). It’s a fabric problem, not a machine problem. So when I have the fabric problem, I use this tear away stabilizer that works beautifully on the say a lovely cotton thin voile.ReplyCancel

  • Kate - I cannot find a ham for love not money, where I am! I asked three different people at two different big box craft stores, and none of them even knew what I was talking about! Not many other options here, might have to make my own. Using a towel is not cutting it.

    I really like those seam allowance guides thingoes that go on your scissors, for cutting out patterns with no SA included. http://seamallowanceguide.com/ReplyCancel

  • Becky - That book sounds really amazing! I’ve been wanting to improve my pattern hacking skills for awhile, and need to purge a lot of my more basic big 4 dress patterns due to some post-baby sizing changes. So this sounds like a stellar replacement!ReplyCancel

  • francesca - Thanks for the curve runner tip! I’ve ordered one – sounds brill! I have the book and love it.wish I could get that spray but its impossible to get them shipped to Europe: (ReplyCancel

  • Gracious Store - I like to sew, I will surely use these tips, thanks for sharingReplyCancel

  • Leticia - I may just have to get a ham now. And the tear away stabilizer sounds good for those thin fabrics. My first shirt feels like it has cereal box cardboard in the button plackets!ReplyCancel

  • Alexandra - Great blog! Thanks for all the tips. I may be in the market for a machine upgrade. I look forward to your review of your Pfaff. All the best.ReplyCancel

Oh goodness. I’ve written this post so many times in my head and when it comes right down to it, it’s hard to find the words. I’ve wanted to share my feelings about what I’ve gone through as a small business owner the past four years and so here goes. It’s a long one! I’ll try to start at the beginning.

I’ve been blogging here since – sheesh, a loooonnnnng time ago, it feels like – 2007. It wasn’t always under A Fashionable Stitch. I went under the alias, the Cupcake Goddess for many years. Wow, that seems like forever ago. When I started blogging, back in the day, I had no idea what I was really doing, what I planned to do with it or what blogging would do for me. When I finally found a focus in sewing apparel, things started picking up for me.


I loved fabric. I still do. Fabric is big for me. I love fine fabric, unusual fabric, printed fabric, textured fabric, fabric from all of the different natural fibers, fabric in all different colors, knit, woven, you name it. I just love it so much and I feel I have a natural affinity for picking good stuff. Now, don’t worry, I’ve picked my share of bad stuff, but overall there’s been more good than bad. I also had connections for superb sewing notions and tools and since I wanted to live a creative life to it’s fullest, aka making my creative passion my business I thought I would give selling notions and tools a try. Things that I use myself and I felt this would be a good thing to start with when it came to selling things under the umbrella of my magnificent obsession.

I’ve had an online store for quite a while, but I didn’t make it truly official until March 2011 (meaning I filed my business name with state and federal institutions). I had quit my day job and decided to go whole hog. And things were good. I felt good about the niche that I was filling and generally I felt like I was adding something to the conversation and that I did people a favor by having these great sewing notions and tools all in one place.

I started receiving more press and my online store and my blog were affording me some pretty grand opportunities. I really did feel great about things for a solid 3 years. During that 3 years, I had the marvelous opportunity to become the teacher of whatever class I wanted to teach at a local fabric shop called Yellow Bird Fabrics. It was absolutely wonderful. I developed some classes that really took off and this along with working one day a week at this fabric shop gave me the opportunity to become acquainted with a whole new animal – the brick and mortar store model. I still had my online shop at that time, I was teaching full-time and I was bringing home really decent money and we were able to live off of this and what my husband was making too. Seriously, it was the life. I think about that snapshot now and it actually kind of makes me a little sad. Those were some really good times and I was feeling way on top of my game.

And then, life happened. The gal who owned and operated Yellow Bird Fabrics was going to have her second baby and she started looking around at things and felt like it would be too much to run a fabric shop, work a day job and have two kiddos (under the age of 2) running around (who can blame her, right?). So she started opening up negotiations with the girls who worked for her so that she could sell her store. She approached me and we started discussing possibilities.

When we started negotiating about purchasing her business, we went through a lot of ups and downs and when all was said and done, I truly did not feel great about the decision to purchase. I had a gut feeling (mind you a very soft spoken gut feeling) that this was wrong for both of us and yet, I decided to just forge ahead anyway. I mean, who am I to listen to crazy voices in my gut or my head for that matter?? “I can do this and I am going to be successful!” I told myself over and over. From the beginning of negotiations to now, I have had nothing but trouble come from the decision to purchase that fabric store. For me, it was the wrong decision. I really feel this way deep down. Sigh…. Some harsh words to face for me, but really, it was the wrong decision for me. I feel it opened up a pandora’s box of a lot of hard, really hard problems that I’ve dealt with on both a professional and personal level that truly, almost did me in. I am amazed that I’m sitting here, writing something sane, having lived through it and come out the other side.


Once I took over possession of the brick and mortar shop, lots of things started going downhill. We had some ups, we did. But there were many more downs. Just when I thought I saw a little sunshine, BOOM! I was hit with one down thing after another and another and another…..and another. And the workload was unbelievable. I was working all the time! And for no take home pay!!! The business was barely sustaining itself. There were tears. I have never cried so many tears in my entire life as I did this last year. So many tears. SO MANY! And I don’t cry. This is the thing. I DON’T CRY! The frustration was so unbelievable that tears were my only refuge – it seemed a daily ritual! By December of 2014, I had had enough. I tried giving it a go with the Sewing Room and that just didn’t take. It was time to make more hard decisions and face some realities.

As you probably know by now, everything is all closed up. I never, ever thought I would close my online store. I had loved my online store so much (I still do), but after the sad fate of my brick and mortar shop, I’ve lacked the tenacity and passion to continue on with any of it, especially when it was barely making enough to cover itself. Once everything was over for the brick and mortar in March of this year, I went right into working full-time and found that the last thing I wanted to do when I got home from work was work more. I have no idea how I used to do this back when I worked a full-time job and was trying to get my online shop up and running (this was before March 2011). It was a hard decision to face, but in order to be fair to myself, then it was time to be real about closing up everything and letting the dream go.

I was fortunate, so very fortunate, to be able to go back to a job within the same company that I worked for previous to March 2011 – when I struck out to become a burgeoning entrepreneur. I knew when this job came back into my life, it was the right decision and I feel better about it than I have felt about anything in a really long time. I feel like I’m supposed to be there and while I know I’m still going to have my fair share of challenges from all angles and facets of life, this was the next right thing for me.

I don’t plan to mention my stint as a business owner much more, if at all (though if I’ve made something from an old fabric from my shop days, I’ll mention that). I’m not sure that I will ever dabble in owning a brick and mortar again – who knows what the future will bring. But right now, I’m not ready to even think about it. I thought I would put my experience out there, especially as someone who really tried to make it in this creative sewing field of business. Other business owners will have different, hopefully much more positive experiences, but I felt mine was also valid. I have felt so deeply about everything this last year (ahem, the crying thing again). It’s been really hard to hold it back and not let the debbie downer part of my personality take over my life – though she’s still won out a lot this last year. All in all, I’m so glad it’s over. I’m so happy to be looking at the horizon of the future with a new perspective on life and a different and more exciting feeling of hope and happiness. I have so much to be grateful for and I’m so happy to be sewing – yup! That drive is not dead. I have some exciting new partnerships to mention and thrill you with and I’m sure there will be more fabric, more garments, more fitting fights and reveries and well the old suspects that were more present on this blog before all of this craziness went down. I’m just glad to still be around. Cheers!

Thank you all for your support and encouragement as all of this has unfolded. Thank you!

xx, Sunni

  • Allison - Such an emotional roller coaster you’ve been on! Sorry your experience has been a difficult one and thanks for sharing! So glad you’re now feeling “at ease”. Peace and light.ReplyCancel

  • Sarah - Oh, I so know the flavor of these feelings! Of course they’re valid! I went to architecture school, did the federally-monitored multi-year internship, passed the licensing exams, hung out my shingle…and realized it and I weren’t a good fit. (That was 1992 – 2008. See the value in ‘failing fast’?) Now I develop websites for large corporate America, and am MUCH happier, but the experiences I went through actively contribute to my outlook and skills, so I really can’t regret them – and the web work I do didn’t start existing until 2005, so I can’t play ‘why didn’t I study CS at the awesome tech university’. It’s a journey, right?ReplyCancel

  • Lara - I am so sorry things did not work out for you with your shop, and hopefully now that it’s gone, that will be the end of the bad feelings for a really long time to come. I am excited to see your latest sewing creations! Cheers to you and your new beginnings :)ReplyCancel

  • Crimson Needle - Thank you for writting this. Your experience is more than valid even if it didn’t end as a “success”. The world is filled with success stories of people who sacrificed, worked hard and now live there lives happy, money in pocket doing exactly what they love to do. They’re living the dream. And reading these stories are hopeful and encouraging, but we do need to hear of the other turnouts. We need to also see that if we give it full go and “lose” (although I don’t think lose would be the right word) that it isn’t because we didn’t work or try hard enough like we’re often thaught by society. That some things are out of our hands, and it can still have a good ending, just not the one you were aiming for. I personnally find stories of people putting themselves back on their feet after making the wrong decision much more impact full and inspiring. And from where I’m standing, you seem to be standing rather strong again (I hope). Good luck with everything and thank you for sharing this difficult part of your life.ReplyCancel

  • Tina - Hey Sunni, I have been following your blog for years now. So sorry for all your ups & downs of life lessons. But it sounds like you have learned many things about yourself through them. Good for you. I really liked your posts about fabric type: fiber & content. I’m glad to see you have kept those blogs on your blog. I teach sewing to girls in South Carolina and now that your online fabric shop has closed, can you give direction as to where we can purchase good quality fabrics online? I am most wanting some of the wool crepe (darn that I didn’t buy some in every color when you had it available!). Thanks again for all your informational posts.
    Blessings to you!ReplyCancel

  • Suzanne - Glad you’re sorting out life in a way that works for you. Just wanted to say i LOVED your zipper class on craftsy. If you were to create more such classes i would be interested!ReplyCancel

  • Samina - Thanks for your honesty, Sunni. I’m sorry that it didn’t work out for you, but I truly admire your courage & the guts it took for you to go for this business & to share with us how it has gone. I’m glad that you’re back on track & I look forward to continuing to follow your blog & to seeing what you have coming up.ReplyCancel

  • Miss Crayola Creepy - I appreciate your honesty and admire your outlook. I can’t wait to see what is next in your sewing adventures! xoReplyCancel

  • Tilly - Sunni, I’m so sorry that this particular project didn’t work out for you, it must feel so tough now but in time you’ll be able to put it into perspective. I’m so happy to hear that you’re feeling good in your new/old job. Owning a small business is HARD. I can’t even imagine having the overheads and pressure of a bricks and mortar on top of everything else that a business owner has to deal with. The main thing is that you gave it a shot, and it didn’t work out but you have learned so much, expanded your comfort zone and I bet you are now able to face any challenge face on :) xxxReplyCancel

  • roger - That’s capitalism for you. Round of applause and launch party when you start; kick in the teeth when it doesn’t work out. There are more small business failures than successes, but only the minority of the latter are talked about, over and over and over again. No one seems to learn.ReplyCancel

  • Judi - Thank you for all of it, Sunni! I’m sorry this has been so hard, you were very brave to even consider owning your own store. I have learned a lot from you, and hope that you will continue to blog about your sewing in the future. I miss the shop, but hopefully this can lift the fog surrounding you and you can be smiling from the inside out once again.xxxReplyCancel

  • Sophie - Thank you for sharing your experience, it is definitely as valid as any other… I really enjoy your blog and there is no doubt you’re talented!! Best of the luck with the new job :)ReplyCancel

  • Charlotte - Thanks for being so honest. I’m really sorry that things didn’t work out as you hoped. It must be a nice change to be paid a regular salary again after all of that stress. Can’t wait to see what you have planned next xReplyCancel

  • Virginia at A Sewing Life - Sunni, I’m not sure if I have written this to you before (maybe, I’ve definitely thought about it). A little while after you started down the road of purchasing your bricks and mortar shop, I had an opportunity to try something similar with an independent local shop. Reading about your experiences helped me to consider the cons along with the pros and I didn’t do it, which I think was the right choice for me. You helped me to realize that it would take all of my energy and then some to own a shop, and that giving it one’s all might not be enough to counter some very daunting economic trends for such shops.

    A year after making this decision, a Joanns joined the Hancock in my town, and three other independent fabric shops went out of business. I am so glad I didn’t have to live through that experience. So, if I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again: thank you so much for sharing what you’ve been through. It absolutely helped me.

    For you, I am truly sorry that the good early days of your sewing-related business didn’t last longer. You are so gifted and you gave so much–you are the last person who deserved such stress and disappointment. But I am glad you are moving past it and that you are happy with where you are now. All the best!ReplyCancel

  • Thewallinna - Thanks for sharing your story and your emotions. Not everybody can do such a thing publicly. I think that each experience is positive, even though some of them may end up not very good for its protagonist. You have definitely learnt lots of new things, you’ve become a stronger person and you’ve discovered so much new things about yourself (I bet!). I wish you all the best with your office job and your free time, which you can dedicate for sewing and blogging!ReplyCancel

  • Anne - Hi Sunni, you don’t know me, but I follow your blog. My name is Anne. When I became a beginner sewer I found your blog and loved it. I have learned so much from you, and am very grateful. I love your style:) I look forward to seeing more makes in the future! Blessings, Anne.ReplyCancel

  • Hélène - So, so important to listen to this little voice inside! God, that’s a good lesson. Best of luck with your new job!ReplyCancel

  • Becky - While things have not turned out the way you envisioned them, I am so proud of you for taking the risks and following your dream! So many of us don’t do that, and then we wonder, wonder, wonder… You don’t have to do that. You gave it your best shot, and the Mr. helped you chase the dream, and in the current climate it just was not meant to be. With time, I think you will begin to realize how very much you learned during this experience. Your online store will be missed. I hope you find lots of peace and contentment with your decision. You have certainly helped me a lot, so keep showing us those makes! Thanks, Sunni!!!ReplyCancel

  • K-Line - Sunni – I so appreciate your honest reflection of this time in your life. And I’m so thrilled that you decided to listen to your intuition and change paths. I’m sure the future holds many wonderful, exciting – and maybe even entrepreneurial (in a long time!) things. The world takes us in some strange directions. But finding the main road again is the substance of life.ReplyCancel

  • justine - I’ve been reading your blog since 2010 Sunni, and following your business, too. The silver lining is that you made it happen, followed a dream and tried your best. At least you won’t live with an ” I should have…” , nagging at you. Trying something you want to do and having it not work out is better than never taking the risk at all.ReplyCancel

  • Leah - Sorry that the brick and mortar turned out to be such an ordeal, you aren’t the only one who has had those problems. Kudos to you for cutting loose and going back to your old job. It is important for people to hear that being in business foe oneself is very hard and stressful. Looking forward to seeing your creative output now that that is what it is and there isn’t a price tag on every moment of your creativity. I think this is an important lesson for people- it’s not always a good idea ‘to do what you love’ as a career. There is so much more in running a business than just what you love. For many people work a good paying job and let your creativity be just that- a creative activity on the side.ReplyCancel

  • Heather - Thank you for writing this post and for being so open about everything. I’m sorry that it didn’t work out for you, but I am glad that you have found/made your peace with it. You are amazing and I am sure that there are still so many great things ahead that will work out for you – and that you will feel are right for you. Wishing you nothing but the best!ReplyCancel

  • Jessica - Sunni, I feel for you, I really do. What a rollercoaster 4 years – the highest of the highs, the lowest of the lows. And you are brave enough to share your story, which I really appreciate, as we always hear about all these *marvelous* success stories but very little about the very real sweat, tears, pain, frustration, and plain ol’ HARD WORK that goes into entrepreneurship, even if it’s something that you love to death. I’m so glad you’re now on a path that feels right and good for where you’re at right now. I’m also glad that your love of sewing hasn’t disappeared, even through all of this. So important!

    Also, thank you for posting this as I really resonated with a number of things that you said. I’m a hobby sewer and will likely never turn it into a business, even though people sometimes ask me about it – it’s just never felt right, and sometimes it can be so hard to trust that little voice in you, even if, on some level and in some very quiet way, you really know that you should. SO thank you for sharing that.

    However, I have taken a step away from the 9-5 to write, and that’s an area where I could really relate to so many things you said. I’m currently going through a period where I just flat out DO NOT want to write ANYTHING. And this is supposed to be my ‘passion.’ It is, but sometimes you just run dry on motivation, especially if you’re a workaholic and now working for yourself (as you said in a prior post). It can be so hard to call ‘enough’!! And sometimes there’s a voice that says, “Ok you’ve done this for awhile, and now it’s time for a change” – and it can be hard to listen to that voice, because this is your PASSION for crying out loud, and yet that voice is right, and you just gotta go with it and trust that the currents will change again, at some point, with regards to the things that you absolutely, to your core, love to do.

    So bravo to you, and thanks for sharing honestly and deeply.

    Here’s to what comes next. And here’s to this very moment :-).ReplyCancel

  • Martha - The next big adventure awaits. Let go of the past and don’t let it hold you back from something new! You have so much support in all you do!ReplyCancel

  • Jane - Hi Sunni, thanks for sharing. I realise you probably don’t want to write or even think any more about the shop, but when you say things went wrong/downhill, is there any chance of you being more specific? Any words of advice you might have for anyone, erm, trying to do something similar? Big pitfalls? Lessons learnt besides, hmm, don’t do it?ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I think one thing that should be understood is that there is a lot of myth when it comes to running your own business. I actually thought that I wouldn’t have to work as hard. Ha ha. You work so much more. So much more than just 40 hours a week. So much more than just 70 hours a week. It is your every waking breath and it absolutely has to be in order for you to survive. Additionally, you are working all the time and there is no take home pay. It’s unbelievable just how tired you begin to feel when there isn’t even a carrot dangling on the line in front you. Ugh.

      After purchasing the brick and mortar shop, I also inherited so many things that I was completely unprepared for. And there is no way that you can become prepared for it. It was an uphill, no wait downhill battle then entire way. I did a post on my blog that went behind the scenes my first month in business as a brick and mortar owner and had a really, really nasty comment left that hurt me to my core. I inherited staff that didn’t feel I was up to the challenge of running my own business and had an allegiance with the previous owner that was awkward. I had to let one gal go in the first month and I had to fire another about five months in. I had so many people telling me how I should do something, how I should run things, what fabric I should get and so on. And then when I did those things, guess who never came in? Those same people! I had hard deals with customers. I dealt with brides and their mothers on a daily basis, but yet who never came in again. I never seemed to have anything that anyone wanted. Good grief and then people would come in and tell me that this or that was ugly. Ugh, sometimes customers can be incredibly demanding and rude. I worked in the retail section of the shop every single day. Then I would try to teach a class here and there. My husband and I had marital problems and some if it stemmed from the decision to purchase this business and that was so incredibly hard. The rent on the building I was in was insane. My 2nd or 3rd month in business, I had a $700 phone bill because I switched providers and didn’t realize the previous owner was on a contract. I made deals with people that I have seriously regretted. It happens. I bought tons of fabric that never sold, until it went on sale.

      One thing you should know. If you don’t do it, it won’t get done. If you don’t market it, it won’t sell. If you don’t pay for it, no one else will. If you don’t say no, you’ll always say yes. And people these days want fabric for the price they paid for 20 or 30 years ago. They don’t want to pay boutique prices. I have to admit, it’s not just hard, it’s almost impossible if you’re not in the right place.ReplyCancel

      • Jane - Thanks Sunni. Gosh I am so glad for you that you’re out of it. My situation is a bit different but I can relate to some of it. Especially the tyre-kickers! It’s so often the ‘customers’ who are neediest who buy the least (or nothing at all). But it sounds like you dealt with some doozies. Wow. And the no takehome pay? Yeah, we’ve been addressing that, with some success. I just hope you, poor thing, can still find joy in sewing after all that! – Jane xxReplyCancel

      • Suzanne - I can see now why you are so done. Thanks for sharing the details. What a horrible experience. You must feel such a sense of freedom right now. But whatever you are doing now I think your old job must be lucky to get you back, it seems like you have a fantastic work ethic.ReplyCancel

  • mari - I am retired and I travel throughout the country all of the time. I can tell you that your experience is not unique as evidence by the fact that it is virtually impossible to find an independent fabric store that carries beautiful fabric for clothing construction. Most towns have at least one quilting fabric shop but they carry ONLY quilting fabric. It is a sad day for those of us who still like to support local businesses and to actually see and touch our fabric before purchase. I have always loved your blog and look forward to seeing what the future has to hold for you. I wish you all the best.ReplyCancel

  • Kate Carvalho - Thank you so much for sharing. You are so honest and brave – it takes real strength to be vulnerable. You’ve learned so much from this painful experience and you are a greater person because of the so called wrong decisions you have made. All my love goes to you.ReplyCancel

  • Angela - What a heartfelt letter! I’ve been following your blog for a LONG time, I think right after you started as A Fashionable Stitch, so I’ve been following your ups and downs. I still looking forward to your blog posts, and am definitely looking forward to what you have to share in the future.ReplyCancel

  • Claire Kennedy - I’m sure this has been a truly trying time(s) for you. Retail can be a very vicious animal. I’ve resisted it all my life from 40 years ago when I did a pro-forma and discovered I would have to pull in thousands of dollars just to meet regulations, fees, taxes, salaries, and basic monthly expenses before I could ever take home a dime. It scared me then and still does even when people say I need a storefront. I’m an artist and I work uneven hours and they aren’t like retail hours.

    If nothing else hopefully that little voice in you has a platform now. There’s nothing like it and listening to it is the best thing you can do for yourself no matter how many well-meaning friends and family tell you otherwise. Some of my family told me not to go into the custom clothing business and 40 years later I’m still seeing clients. The little voice does not lie!!!

    Follow that dream inside. It never dies and can lead you to some glorious directions.ReplyCancel

  • Nikky Leonardos - Hi Sunni, I always browse over your blog and always felt your struggles. I am so sorry about the feelings, tears and overall process you have had to go through. As time goes on you will heal and hopefully accept this as a path you had to take. On top of all that you should be proud of doing what you did. It was hard but you did it, you gave it a go and gave your best. For that in itself you are a winner. You had a dream and you tried to make it work, so hats off to you. How many people have the ‘if only I did …’syndrome. Well you don’t, you get out there, gave it a go, and unfortunately it didn’t work out the way it should have. However you did it, and on top of all that had the courage to let go of this dream. Don’t knock yourself down, and thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Now that takes courage.ReplyCancel

  • Madame Hardy - I know they’re nearly meaningless, but big big BIG Internet hugs. I once read that when you make a bad decision, “bad” is actually an abbreviation for “Best Available Data” — you did what you could with the information you had at the time. I am sorry your dream ran aground, and I am much sorrier you worked yourself into the ground.

    I hope something wonderful happens to you soon.ReplyCancel

  • Amy - Hi Sunni. I’ve been following you for awhile now – from at least the 2010-2011 era, and it makes me happy to feel like I can hear a smile in your voice again. I know the past year must have been so frustrating, and I’m sorry things didn’t take a better path, but I’m glad you’re still sewing and enjoying your new job. Best of luck!ReplyCancel

  • Stina P - Thanks for sharing – it gives really good balance to all the I-quit-my-day-job-and-now-earns-25k-a-month. And I have to say, it was brave of you to get in it, and brave of you to get out of it. I wish you all the best in the future, and really hope that it hasn’t put you off sewing and crafting – at least not in the long run! :)ReplyCancel

  • Miss J - It’s such a shame Sunni!
    You have such talent that it deserves to fly!
    I’ve seen those with far less talent than you maintain establishments that teach sewing so I am confident that’s a dream that can come round again for you.
    Please don’t forget that sine of the biggest entrepreneurs have gone through what you have.
    Most of us, including myself, never have the guts to ever try

    I am proud of you!ReplyCancel

  • Linda - I am sorry that your business didn’t work out for you Sunni! I’m sure if I lived anywhere near close, I would have bought some of your luscious fabrics! Glad you are settled in your full time job now, and wish you all the luck for the future.ReplyCancel

  • Kerry - Hi Sunni, thanks for sharing this really honest post with us. I know that feeling of having the tiny voice of your gut feeling speaking, but sometimes it takes a long time to recognise it and properly hear it. And also, trying hard to make a job work, when you wonder ‘is this really for me?’. And also, all the crying and emotion – so bloody tiring! A lot of hard lessons to learn there and pretty emotionally draining. Very best of luck of luck in your new job and for the future xReplyCancel

  • eimear - it cannot have been easy, I have worked in retail and golly-gee, you really get to meet all sorts the other side of the counter -Years ago, I had tried self employment, didnt work out for me and then I worked full time to get cash together, since I now work part-time and which leaves me a fair amount of time to work on my own projects without worrying about money. I look forward to your future posts – the very best of luck also with your future adventures and projectsReplyCancel

  • Brooke - Sunni, I just want to leave a comment to let you know I am a big fan of yours, and even more so for writing this post. I’m a religious (Muslim) person, so this may or may not resonate with you, but I believe God tests us at the same time as He grows us. We cannot become patient people unless we are put through trying times. We cannot be emotionally strong unless we are put through emotionally taxing situations. And so on and so forth. You probably don’t even realise it yet, but you would have gained a lot through this. Time will show that to you. You also would have learnt a lot about yourself in the process.
    In the meantime, I’m so happy that I have your tailors hams, pin cushion and fabric. In the most uncreepiest of ways, I think of you whenever I use them :)ReplyCancel

  • Anne - I’m glad you’ve come through your bad experiences, to find more settled times. Good luck in the future.ReplyCancel

  • Alice - Sunni, thank you for trusting in your readers. Best of luck to you in all of your future endeavors.ReplyCancel

  • Essbee - And so we shall never speak of this again. 😉

    I know exactly how you feel. My spouse and I started up a small business that we really loved and believed in (it had an environmental/social impact). The reality was that it wasn’t profitable enough to raise our very young family on, and we were at a point where, like you, it was starting to damage our physical health and our relationships, not to mention our wallets, so we sold it after three years.

    It appears to be doing fantastically now, I check in on their website a couple times a year or so and almost always shed a tear over it because I do miss certain aspects of it. I wouldn’t change anything about it though, including the sale, and you’ll feel the same in time if you don’t already. No regrets!ReplyCancel

  • Lauren - Sunni, I can’t even imagine how stressful the past few years have been for you! My parents are also small business owners, so I have an inkling – but a creative business is a whole nother beast of it’s own right, and takes SO MUCH out of you. I’m so happy to hear that you were able to make the decision based on what was right for you, and that you’re doing better with your new path. It’s so sad when something like that sucks the joy out of your passion, and I’m glad you got it back! Here’s hoping the next few years will make up for all the crap you’ve just been through!

    Also – I think you’re a badass, not only for taking on such a crazy endeavor and actually living through to see the other side, but also just for having the strength to openly talk about it on your blog. I don’t think most of us (myself included) would have the guts to admit the downside of things, and I really respect you for it. I think you’re awesome.ReplyCancel

  • Heather Lou - Sunni, thank you SO much for sharing your story. I can’t imagine how hard it was to write – it sounds like you’ve had a truly hellish year but I am so happy for you that you’ve righted your course and are on a new path that feels good. We’re all here for you no matter what is in store! xoReplyCancel

  • Ola Russek - It felt good to read about your experience and try to understand what you’ve been through. I hope it’ll only get better for you from now on! And that we’ll see more of the awesome stuff you sew here on the blog :)ReplyCancel

  • Diane O - So sorry to hear this….this chapter has closed and it sound like a nice run with ups and downs. Wish you the best at your new chapter. Hope you keep your blog up so we can keep in touch with you.ReplyCancel

  • Peter - I can only echo what so many other commenters have already said: you are a winner because you took on a huge challenge and saw it through to the end. There’s a saying that sometimes NOT getting what you want turns out to be the greatest gift. You don’t know what doors this experience may have opened or will open for you in the future. You have so much life ahead of you and have learned so much in a short, albeit highly stressful, period. Your talents, grace, and ingenuity will continue to take you far. Thank you for sharing this experience as you have your sewing experiences for the 5+ years I’ve been following you — since your Cupcake Goddess days!ReplyCancel

  • Kerry - Thankyou for such openness and honesty. Sometimes I think the economic reality of a job within the sewing world is romanticised and glossed over when the truth is it is incredibly hard work for designers, shop owners, businesses with a small income and often very little time to pursue the very thing you love in the first place. You scratched all your itches and took risks and you survived for future adventures whatever then may be. Now you can enjoy your free sewing time again totally guilt free.ReplyCancel

  • Ashley - Thanks for sharing your experience! It takes a really amazing person to share a difficult experience with the rest of us, especially when things don’t turn out the way you had expected them too. I’m looking forward to seeing what’s next in your sewing queue!

  • Jane - Oh Sunni, this is such a brave, honest post, I really feel for you. I’m so sorry your business didn’t work out, but at least you gave it a shot. You’ve come out the other side and the only way is up from now on my friend. Wishing you all the luck and happiness in the world. xxReplyCancel

  • Sharon Jester - Thanks for sharing your experience, you should be proud of your endeavors, you step out and tried, and you learn from your experience, most of us are scared to try their passion as a business, no wonders for you, you can say been their done that, and you really can appreicate where you are today, and move forward to new endeavors, with no regrets.ReplyCancel

  • Dixie - I’ve worked closely with a handful local fabrics stores and seen the struggles those owners have gone through first hand. It’s tough. You can only carry so much stock and not everyone is going to want/need/like what you carry. It’s impossible to appeal to everyone. I’ve seen three stores close in my city in the past year and a half.

    In the end, though, you got to go with what your heart is telling you and move on. I’m glad you’ve got a new job now and hopefully have more time for fun sewing!ReplyCancel

  • SewingTidbits - Dear Sunni,

    I’m not much of a commenter but I have been reading your blog(s) probably since the beginning. I never missed one of your post about your business because they were so honest and enlightening. I am sorry you went through such a hard time but at the same time grateful that you keep sharing with all of us so that we can all grow and learn with you. Congratulations on re-entering the job market successfully!ReplyCancel

  • Charlie - You’re an absolute star for posting this! How brave. I hold my hands up in total admiration and awe. Good on you xxxxxReplyCancel

  • Joen - Life does throw us a few curve balls, but I’ve learned that things happen for a reason and new doors open that you never imagined. I look forward to following along on your blog and your sewing adventures!ReplyCancel

  • StephC - Hey Sunni- It’s so hard, isn’t it? So hard to spend every waking moment pouring your life and soul into this thing, to keep on telling yourself if you could just push a little further, work a little harder, eventually everything will work out right. And for no pay. Sure, it’s not all about making money, but when the work is so hard that it’s grinding you down that way for *nothing,* it gets harder and harder to justify the work to other people… And to oneself…. (So hear you about the tears… And not being a crying person…And pretty much all of what you wrote.)

    I’m glad that you’re on a better track for you, I’m trying to find mine… I’ve always been a fan of your work, your ethic, and your vision and I wish only the best for you in the future, whatever that may be. :) *internet hugs*ReplyCancel

  • Annemieke - Hi Sunny, I SO admire your courage. Not only to speak about your troubles over the last few years, but also the fact that you did try in the first place. I have made a carreer-switch in the past that caused me a lot of problems, not to mention money and (mental) health. But I still believe I did the right thing at the time. As the french say: Il faut mieux vivre avec des revors qu’avec des regrets. Which translates to something like: It’s better to regret something you’ve done than to regret not doing something…
    I’ve learned a lot about myself in that period, and believe I’ve come out stronger. I hope you will get to look back at this period of your life with the same feeling (after you’ve given it some time…)
    Good luck!ReplyCancel

  • Lynn - Sunni, I am so happy to hear that you are doing better, feeling more hopeful and happy and looking ahead to better days. Please do not consider yourself a failure, you were courageous and brave to give it a try. I enjoy your blog and hope you will continue to share your knowledge of sewing with us. Hugs and prayers for a joyful future.ReplyCancel

  • CarmencitaB - This is quite a bitter pill to swallow and I champion you honesty.
    You tried, you failed and you will come through.
    You are and will remain totally awesome and ahead of you game.
    Yeaaah! Sunni!ReplyCancel

  • Fraulein Nina - Oh no, that is terrible. I’m so sorry you had to go through all that. Thank you for your honesty here. I love how positive the blogging community it is, but sometimes it’s good to hear about failures so we can see not everything is roses and cupcakes. I’m glad you managed to come out the other end and hope that maybe, just maybe, you’ll get your online shop back on its feet!ReplyCancel

  • Casey Maura - Oh, Sunni! I feel for you. I have no inkling of personally the challenges of running a brick and mortar shop, but I can imagine it’s incredibly hard–even for those shops that are successful. I really salute you for hanging in there like you did, and also for knowing when it was time to call it quits–that takes A LOT of guts! Having gone through some really difficult times–personally and “professionally” (namely, loosing my EM url)–the past few years, I can sympathize with the huge amount of stress that it puts on your life. Sending lots of well wishes your way as you embark on the next chapter of life. :) I am convinced, even though some seasons are incredibly painful and fraught with more sorrow than joy, they are not completely without purpose in our lives. *hugs*ReplyCancel

  • Sonja - I am so sorry that you went through all this stress and disappointment. But I’m glad to hear that you’re feeling confident in your decision to take a full-time job again, and I hope that having some extra time for rest and relationships leaves you feeling more like yourself very soon. I’m sure it’s a weight lifted off your shoulders to come home at the end of the day without a pile of work staring at you!ReplyCancel

  • Margaret - Thank you for sharing what must have been a very complex process for you. As someone who owns a small sewing business, I go through “stay-or-go” on a regular basis. It helps to have insight from someone else. I wish you all the best on all your future endeavors and hope you can still share your sewing projects with all of us!ReplyCancel

  • Jen - Your story is definitely valid! Whilst a lot of people’s experiences will be of fabric/sewing/dressmaking or other businesses which have worked, it is crucial to hear about people’s stories like this one. I, along with I’m sure many other people, dream of owning my own business own day and am in doubt that I see it through rose-tinted glasses which I know it’s not but cannot help but put it on a pedestal anyway. So it’s incredibly worthwhile to hear from those people whose experiences were not as positive so people are informed and someone avoids similar situations. I’m sorry it wasn’t what you hoped it would be and made you unhappy despite the mountain of effort and work! Glad to see things are looking up.ReplyCancel

  • Barbara - Now that you no longer have your shop, will you have time to change some of your links? I recently checked out your advice on some of your products, wanted to see what they looked like, and the link is gone. If you could at least link to a photo of the product you were referring to, that could be helpful in the future.

    Having dealt with people who demanded something of me then didn’t bother when I made the effort to comply, I really understand that aspect of your business. Hurtful comments when you yourself meant no harm is also very difficult to handle emotionally.

    One day you’ll look back on this time and feel proud that you took on a challenge and succeeded for a time. You could have succeeded even more possibly in a different era, timing seems to be everything in today’s market.ReplyCancel

    • Sunni

      Sunni - I’ll try Barbara, but that’s going to be a lot of links! Is there a specific post you’re looking at? Just so that I can reference the time frame of when I posted vs. now. Sometimes the links are so old that they just don’t work or even go to anything anymore. The products are no longer available. But I’ll definitely try! Thanks for letting me know!ReplyCancel

  • Kelly - I’m so late reading, but I just wanted to say that you have done such an amazing job these last few years! So inspiring, even if it didn’t work out as you hoped. It makes perfect sense that you feel burned out and exhausted, and I hope you can take it easy on yourself and enjoy your new “freedom” in a 9-5. :)ReplyCancel

  • LinB - I commend your courage in realizing that you made a mistake. It takes a great deal of self-knowledge to reach the conclusion that you and your chosen job were not a good match. Thank goodness that you were able to find work again so (relatively) quickly!

    Don’t think of your retail venture as a failure. Think of it as an adventure that had an ending you were not expecting. Every ending causes us grief and remorse, even when though that ending may also bring relief and/or elation. Let yourself grieve. The pain lessens as time goes by: it was a lovely thing, that shop, while it lasted.

    Now you are free to look outward, and forward, and walk new paths, and conquer new heights. Know that you are loved, by more folk than you may ever meet in person. You are of great worth to us as a mentor and as a very good writer. We’re pulling for you.ReplyCancel


Thanks for all the memories and sweet times. The online store is now officially closed. We’re still gearing down the online store. If you thought you had missed everything, let me tell you, you haven’t. I added a bunch of goodies over the weekend and there’s still some more things to sort through and get up online (which I’ll be doing tomorrow and Thursday). And…..

we’re taking it down to 30% off everything! Yup. Use the code AFSCLOSING2 to save 30% off your order right now. And as fast as we can, we’re getting your order cut and shipped out. Exciting times friends. I’m sure we’ll be back soon with another step down. We’ll see what we have left.

Once all is said and done, I’ll be back with some thoughts for you on my business and the things we’ve seen and been through. I’ve been jotting some things down along the way here and there and I think it’s time to make some cohesion from it all. I’m sure you’ll enjoy that. Plus I have some exciting news and an exciting new friend to show you. Yay!

For now, there’s more in the store.

xx, Sunni

  • Lorna Brower - I have loved your store and then your online store. I trust your fabric choices without touching them. I am happy with every purchase I have made. I am so sad that you are closing your online store. I understand that you can’t keep a store open just for me out of the goodness of your heart, you have to make money. I love to read your blog and hope to keep that up from time to time.

    So…..do you have any online sources for fabric that you trust consistently?
    Thanks so much and good luck on your new job. I hope you have lots of time to sew for yourself and enjoy your talent.
    Lorna BrowerReplyCancel

  • jaybell - Sunni, I am so bummed I missed the closing of your store! I loved the aqua cotton pique you had and only held off buying some due to the size of my stash. Any advice on where I might find something similar?ReplyCancel

  • Missy - I am so sad your store closed. I haven’t sewn in a while so I wasn’t aware of the changes or closure. I wish you the best in your new adventure. Random question. Are you completely out of everything or are there still a few items left in your online shop? I tried accessing it and a password is required to enter. If you have anything left I”d be interested to check it out.


  • jaybell - I should add–best of luck to you Sunni! I hope you enjoy your new endeavor. I also hope you keep blogging about sewing. You and the other sewists who share their knowledge & experience via the internet are such a tremendous inspiration, especially to those like me who don’t really have a sewing “community” at home. So thank you!ReplyCancel


Thanks for all the memories and sweet times. The online store is now officially closed. With a little bit of sadness and a huge sigh of relief (whewwww!), I’m finally able to announce that we are closing our online shop. It’s finally official. Things had gone, well, sour. I don’t want to go into specifics because there are a lot of factors that have contributed to the demise of my business. But in good news, I’ve landed a full-time job that will work for me for probably a really long time. I have to admit that I’m glad that I just don’t have the time anymore to invest into something that requires a fairly large amount of upkeep (yet doesn’t pay the bills….). Hard truth, but truth it is.

So I have a few items of business. We are going to be closing everything out. It will work itself in waves until we’ve finally sold everything and anything we can. Right now, everything in the online store is 20% off with the code AFSCLOSING1. Next week, we’ll be stepping down the sale, so stay tuned for that. Everything’s gotta go. We’ll be adding more items here and there – as we have time to do so. (Update – Please note that these “more items” that we have to add will not include any more wool crepe. That is gone and gone forever!! So sorry if you missed those, they were special and amazing!) Additionally, please take careful note that we are discontinuing swatches. Things will probably go fast, so be aware that even if you get a swatch, the fabric might be sold out when you come back to order yardage! First come, first serve! Get it while it lasts!

Will I still be blogging? I will. Admittedly, I’m not sure what’s next for A Fashionable Stitch and my creative sewing life, but here’s to hoping it’s something good even if it’s just creative sewing. I’m good with that actually. In fact, I’m really good with that. I have been working on some sewing projects that I’m excited to show you, talk about and even do some tutorials for. I have to tell you a funny thing. In the past year or so, I’ve had very limited sewing time and so my personal sewing projects were put on the back burner as I ran a business – mind you, a sewing business. Now that I have a full-time job, it’s interesting to note that I am making time for my personal sewing projects and so I feel like I get a little more accomplished. I found out that working for yourself means that you work so much more than you even think and so much more than just 40 hours a week. Since I have workaholic blood in my veins, I felt like all I ever did was work and so I’m happy that I’m going to be doing an 8 – 5 job and creating sewing projects in my off hours and those off hours seem to be so much more than I even remember. Life is good and I do feel positive and upbeat about this change.

I don’t know if this will come as a shock or not, but I do hope that you all understand. I adore the online sewing community and have been apart of it for so very long. Thank you for all of your encouragement. I also want to issue a special thank you to anyone who ever purchased supplies or fabric from my store(s). Thank you so very much. It means the world to me! May you always have a full bobbin and a project that doesn’t need too much seam ripping!

Now hop on over to the shop and clean me out!

xx, Sunni

  • Molly - Sunni, I always loved visiting your bricks and mortar store. I was sad that you chose to close this. Again, I am sad that you are closing your online shop, but I support you in this decision. Any decision you make is the right decision. You have a great sense of style and your garments are always impeccably made! Many have appreciated your thoughts on sewing, construction, style, etc that you have generously contributed through your blog as well as in person. Thank you for all of this! On to the next great adventure! You will do well in whatever you choose to do.
    Please keep in touch. Molly, Salt Lake CityReplyCancel

  • Kathleen - So sorry to hear you are closing, but just wanted to say I hope you keep blogging. Your tutorials have been very helpful to me!ReplyCancel

  • Bernice - Sunni, You are a very talented and hard working young woman. I know from experience how challenging it can be to run a small business. You will always have that experience and perspective to bring to the table in your career. I wish you the best of luck! And I look forward to your blog posts.
    I’ve ordered from your shop before and just placed an order. Thank you.ReplyCancel

  • Elizabeth Duke - All the very best wishes to you, Sunni!
    Please keep blogging and updating us
    your fashionista followers!ReplyCancel

  • Belinda - So sorry to hear this – even though I live in Australia, I have enjoyed ordering from your store in the past! I hope that your new job works out well and that you continue to share on your blog :)ReplyCancel

  • Debbie - Best wishes to you Sunni! I hope your new endeavor works out for you. Always make time to sew!!ReplyCancel

  • Kathi giumentaro - I am sorry to see your online shop close. Your knits were to die for. I look forward to your future posts.ReplyCancel

  • Martha C - It’s a big step and I wish you all the success in e world. I known you will be terrific in your new role. On a selfish note…please continue to blog. I have enjoyed it so much. Learned so much and really just love your style and writing and photos . They always bring joy to my day. Best wishes Suni!ReplyCancel

  • Janet - Your sewing inspired me to make a tailored jacket! I look forward to your future posts.ReplyCancel

  • Alice - I just started following you. I wish you the best in your new adventure. I will continue to look forward to your blog.ReplyCancel

  • Robin - Sunni – you have accomplished SO MUCH in the last few years. Enjoy your new lifestyle and creative sewing.
    All the best to you-ReplyCancel

  • Emily S - Ah Sunni! This makes me so sad but I understand. I just came to see if I could get some more voile fabric I bought earlier only to come across this unhappy news. Best of luck in all your future endeavors!


    P.S. Keep the blog posts coming. Your blog is one of my favorites. :)ReplyCancel

  • Sue - Sad to see your shop go, Sunni! But, so glad you’re happy with your choice. It sounds like you’re doing the right thing. :)
    I still use the tailors ham and seam roll I bought from you a few years ago!ReplyCancel

  • Heather Lou - I’m sad to lose a great online shopping resource but really happy you’re feeling positive and excited about the future! I wish you all the best going forward and hope that sweet, sweet 9-5 life treats you well (I am prone to romanticizing it these days, haha).ReplyCancel

  • Joen - Sunni, best of luck to you on your new adventure! I enjoy seeing your sewing projects and you have inspired me with my own sewing. Looking forward to see your projects and hope you have more time for personal sewing.ReplyCancel

  • HeidiAphrodite - One thing I’m finally learning is that we work to live–we don’t live to work. If your dream becomes toxic and stressful, it’s time to reevaluate! You will be missed, but you have my respect and admiration for having the guts to operate a shop (online and in real life) and then close it down when it’s time. Best of luck to you!ReplyCancel

  • Linda - Best wishes for the future! I hope you keep blogging, I love your posts! You are very inspiring to me:)ReplyCancel

  • SJ Kurtz - May you live a long and happy life that has many twists and turns, and find that sweet sweet project that turns on all the stuff in your brain. And then the next one. And the one after that. May your downtimes be short, and your ROI be emotionally satisfying!ReplyCancel

  • Miss Crayola Creepy - Love you, Sunni! xoReplyCancel

  • Amanda - Admittedly, I’m sad to hear this, as your shop has been a trusted source of exceptional quality materials for me for a long time, and that is something which is much appreciated and tough to come by, particularly in an online marketplace :)

    That said, I’m very happy for you, and wish you ALL the very best in your future endeavours! :) As for me, I will always treasure the garments I’ve made (and will make!) from your fabrics, knowing they are extra special (one of them is still in the making – my wedding dress!) :) XOReplyCancel

  • Judi Short - I am so sorry this is happening, but glad you find a good job that makes you happy. And allows you time to sew, that is so important!! I will miss our friendship and hopefully will run into you around town. Please keep blogging, even if it is sporadic, and keep your blog up, many of us use the tutorials a lot. A valuable resource. Best of luck to you, my dear!ReplyCancel

  • Peggy - Sunni, I applaud you for making the tough decisions about your business and shop. All the best in future endeavors. Keep blogging. I love it!ReplyCancel

  • Becky Thompson - Best wishes to you Sunni. I’ve dabbled with my own business for over 15 years now but it was always an extra thing I did besides my 8-4 job. I’m sure you can now appreciate those entrepreneurs who strike it out on their own, build a business from the ground up and realize that those who truly make it work are far and few between. That’s one of the reasons I don’t like government telling businesses what to do but that’s another rant.

    I hope you keep teaching because you’re very gifted that way. I’ll stay signed up for your blog because I’d love to see your personal sewing projects. Just launched my own blog myself. God bless you and yours!ReplyCancel

  • Sarah C - Best wishes to you in your future endeavors!ReplyCancel

  • krystina - I just wanted to say good luck and also that I do hope you keep blogging! I am a bit of a lurker (sorry), but have always been a fan of your tailored style. I love the whole fit and flare thing for other people, but it just isn’t my style. Your blog is really inspiring because it’s different.ReplyCancel

  • Tasia - I’m sad to hear this but if the feeling you have is relief, then you know it’s the right next move for you! Best wishes for whatever the future has in store. It’s funny how running a sewing business left you less time to sew than before, and I hope you’re finding new ways to enjoy sewing now that things have changed. I hope you keep blogging, but don’t feel like you have to if you’re not into it! Follow your heart and the rest will fall into place. :) TasiaReplyCancel

  • Cheryl Designs - This is another GREAT adventure on your path of life :) You tried another path and it didn’t work out as planned :) That’s cool :) I am a self-employed seamstress. I LOVE my business and my customers. I work ALOT but seems like I don’t get PAID a lot :( I bill labor charges for my work but the EXTRAS take a lot of time..i.e. phone calls, emails and billing..paperwork…’hand-holding’… I do ALOT of bridal work :) etc….I understand how your business ATE YOUR LIFE :) It’s a learning experience :) I RARELY have time to sew for myself…. it’s okay…I guess???????? I NEED to earn cash to pay bills, the same as other working people :) I think you did a GREAT thing, you gave life a SHOT :) You are SO….. FAR…. ahead of the game :) MANY people sit and TALK TALK TALK about the things they MIGHT try someday :) You DID IT :) GOOD FOR YOU :) BEST WISHES from CHERYL :)ReplyCancel

  • Sewing Princess - Sunni, yes…reading your post came as a bit of a shock. I didn’t expect you would be closing down your online store…I’ve always admired your supplies and wished I lived closer not to run into huge duties. I would have loved to help you clear out but I see it’s all done already! Most importantly I am happy you found a new job that hopefully is very motivating for you. Running a business is not easy…and turning a hobby into a business does what it did to you…not leaving any time for sewing for pleasure! So I truly hope you will now have a bit more time for that and that you will be less worried about finances. I hope that you will continue blogging at your own pace…for the past 5 years I’ve been admiring your makes, learning from your tutorials and reading about your adventures. So thanks for sharing this all. Hugs, SilviaReplyCancel